Do Some People Here Have Stockholm Syndrome?

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JohnnyLurg
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07 May 2017, 6:28 am

HisShadowX wrote:
JohnnyLurg wrote:
Since I first became active on this forum, I have often found that whenever I or anyone else vents or voices their pain about how unfair society and neurotypicals can be, there is a good chance that other users with AS will either a) attack and/or vilify them for voicing said pain b) claim that said pain is insignificant compared to the starving children in Africa c) hypothesize that they will go on to be "an autistic Trump" who persecutes neurotypicals, all of which make the person venting their pain feel even worse about themselves than they did before they used this site. I am shocked, disgusted, and saddened by this behavior. I know some autistic people lack empathy or sympathy (although many have better empathy or sympathy than most neurotypicals), but what the hell kind of autistic person attacks and vilifies an autistic person for venting on a forum designated for help with autism? I mean, where else online can an autistic person vent about their problems? I don't necessarily believe that anyone here has Stockholm Syndrome, but it sure feels like it when some autistic people have lost their touch enough to understand how torturous the world can be for autistic people and use autistic forums to attack and vilify any autistic person who God forbid has the nerve to express how unfair their situation is, regardless of whether or not other people have it worse off than themselves.


Your shocked autistic people lack empathy and sympathy? Let me take a guess, your self diagnosised?


No, I'm professionally diagnosed. I never said I was shocked autistic people lack empathy and sympathy, but clearly you do.



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07 May 2017, 2:54 pm

Some excellent replies here. Many of them do a great job explaining the situation.
But I will also add an unfortunate truth.

A huge number of people think their circumstances are terrible, that they are being oppressed and treated poorly, that things are unfair for them, and how they have the right to be treated with dignity. Only a percentage of those people are actually being treated unfairly enough to warrant intervention, and it is really damn hard to know which is which sometimes, and we literally don't have the resources or compassion (compassion fatigue is a thing) to intervene and arbitrate every situation.

With no way to tell the difference between special snowflakes and the genuinely oppressed, unless the oppression gets REALLY bad, we often choose to preserve our resources and compassion and wait for those big cases to show up. A lot of little oppression slips through the cracks, because special snowflakes yell for help just as loud.