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13 Aug 2017, 3:46 pm

It's because it sounds better than "security guard" to some people.

It's like calling an employee of a company an "associate."



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13 Aug 2017, 3:55 pm

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It's because it sounds better than "security guard" to some people.

It's like calling an employee of a company an "associate."


It's funny :D . How was your day today?


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13 Aug 2017, 3:56 pm

Not bad. I saw my mother today.

Did you go in the water?



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13 Aug 2017, 3:59 pm

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Not bad. I saw my mother today.

Did you go in the water?


Yup! I love the ocean, it's are so peaceful and it makes a nice background sound in the evening. I am really tired, though.


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13 Aug 2017, 4:02 pm

Do you ever see lighthouse lights in the distance when you swim at night?



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13 Aug 2017, 4:02 pm

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What's a "secret shopper?"


I have a different definition of "secret shopper"

a secret shopper is someone who is sent into a shop or establishment to pose as a customer to rate the service of the shop


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13 Aug 2017, 4:07 pm

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Thanks everyone for your responses. I've ultimately chosen not to pursue this unless a doctor recommends it. I spoke with my sister who has a very level head about most things and she recommended against it unless it's absolutely necessary. She said that she felt I handled situations with police officers well and unless something develops to simply leave it be.


I disagree, and I frankly don't think most autistic people - especially the more high functioning - understand how critical this could become. Because of issues like selective mutism, it is entirely possible that under severe stress, an autistic person, even after being read their miranda rights, might find it impossible to ask for legal counsel.

If then, you were asked direct questions and so much as shrugged yes or no as an answer, that could be construed as "confession" (and don't think LE "heroes" won't stoop to bullying and trickery to incriminate you, just to make themselves look badass).

Having your disability up front and unmistakable could only help, if you ever had to defend yourself in court. You are not like everybody else, and if you are held to the same standards as a normal person, you will get screwed every time.


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13 Aug 2017, 4:19 pm

will@rd wrote:
Broken Sun Beam wrote:
Thanks everyone for your responses. I've ultimately chosen not to pursue this unless a doctor recommends it. I spoke with my sister who has a very level head about most things and she recommended against it unless it's absolutely necessary. She said that she felt I handled situations with police officers well and unless something develops to simply leave it be.


I disagree, and I frankly don't think most autistic people - especially the more high functioning - understand how critical this could become. Because of issues like selective mutism, it is entirely possible that under severe stress, an autistic person, even after being read their miranda rights, might find it impossible to ask for legal counsel.

If then, you were asked direct questions and so much as shrugged yes or no as an answer, that could be construed as "confession" (and don't think LE "heroes" won't stoop to bullying and trickery to incriminate you, just to make themselves look badass).

Having your disability up front and unmistakable could only help, if you ever had to defend yourself in court. You are not like everybody else, and if you are held to the same standards as a normal person, you will get screwed every time.


My GF has always told me if I get arrested , I should always ask to see a Doctor and explain my situation before I speak to anyone. Luckily I've never had to put it into practice , so cant say if it's a good idea or not. :roll:


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13 Aug 2017, 4:26 pm

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will@rd wrote:
Broken Sun Beam wrote:
Thanks everyone for your responses. I've ultimately chosen not to pursue this unless a doctor recommends it. I spoke with my sister who has a very level head about most things and she recommended against it unless it's absolutely necessary. She said that she felt I handled situations with police officers well and unless something develops to simply leave it be.


I disagree, and I frankly don't think most autistic people - especially the more high functioning - understand how critical this could become. Because of issues like selective mutism, it is entirely possible that under severe stress, an autistic person, even after being read their miranda rights, might find it impossible to ask for legal counsel.

If then, you were asked direct questions and so much as shrugged yes or no as an answer, that could be construed as "confession" (and don't think LE "heroes" won't stoop to bullying and trickery to incriminate you, just to make themselves look badass).

Having your disability up front and unmistakable could only help, if you ever had to defend yourself in court. You are not like everybody else, and if you are held to the same standards as a normal person, you will get screwed every time.


My GF has always told me if I get arrested , I should always ask to see a Doctor and explain my situation before I speak to anyone. Luckily I've never had to put it into practice , so cant say if it's a good idea or not. :roll:


Lol you can tell the police that you have a SFD (save ferrets disorder :lol: ). I'm joking, of course! :D


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13 Aug 2017, 4:28 pm

Just try not to get arrested lol



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13 Aug 2017, 4:37 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I don't think there is such a thing in New York State.

I'm sorry you had to go through that in Walmart. What's a "secret shopper?"



A person who is being paid to shop but they are there to review the customer service there and some are actually hied by the store to "shop" but they are there to catch shop lifters. This is more common in the holiday season. They are disguised as regular customers so you have no idea they are working there or are working for another company to review the place. Except I think the secret shopper that is hired by the store isn't actually buying anything but they are just pretending to be customers and looking around and they go where there are lot of people. My mom who is very observant and detail orientated can tell who these people are just by watching their body language and watching their pattern.


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13 Aug 2017, 4:44 pm

Broken Sun Beam wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
I don't think there is such a thing in New York State.

I'm sorry you had to go through that in Walmart. What's a "secret shopper?"


It's a walmart employee who is not in uniform who walks around pretending to shop all day. If they "See" someone steal something they stop them before they leave the store. In a few cases they've been known to actually tackle people in the parking lot's if they were stealing something very obviously expensive. Such as a TV ect.



There was a video online that went viral about a 45 year old woman cussing a secret shopper out because he thought she was shop lifting. He was all calm while she was screaming and he grabbed her cart and then he looked at her receipt and saw the toy she was buying was really that price.

But my parents once saw a woman being on the ground screaming with mall security on her because she was caught shoplifting and people in the coffee shop were leaving. My mom wanted to leave too because it was making her uncomfortable. But sadly even innocent people act guilty when they are accused so they make the situation escalate and make it worse and they make themselves look crazy and then everyone blames the store security or employee than the accused. Not saying the woman in the mall was innocent but if she was, she made herself look crazy and everyone wanted to get away from it.


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13 Aug 2017, 4:58 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Just try not to get arrested lol


I'm a fast runner with Ferret like abilities so it's not likely :lol:


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13 Aug 2017, 4:59 pm

StampySquiddyFan wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
will@rd wrote:
Broken Sun Beam wrote:
Thanks everyone for your responses. I've ultimately chosen not to pursue this unless a doctor recommends it. I spoke with my sister who has a very level head about most things and she recommended against it unless it's absolutely necessary. She said that she felt I handled situations with police officers well and unless something develops to simply leave it be.


I disagree, and I frankly don't think most autistic people - especially the more high functioning - understand how critical this could become. Because of issues like selective mutism, it is entirely possible that under severe stress, an autistic person, even after being read their miranda rights, might find it impossible to ask for legal counsel.

If then, you were asked direct questions and so much as shrugged yes or no as an answer, that could be construed as "confession" (and don't think LE "heroes" won't stoop to bullying and trickery to incriminate you, just to make themselves look badass).

Having your disability up front and unmistakable could only help, if you ever had to defend yourself in court. You are not like everybody else, and if you are held to the same standards as a normal person, you will get screwed every time.


My GF has always told me if I get arrested , I should always ask to see a Doctor and explain my situation before I speak to anyone. Luckily I've never had to put it into practice , so cant say if it's a good idea or not. :roll:


Lol you can tell the police that you have a SFD (save ferrets disorder :lol: ). I'm joking, of course! :D


You may jest , but I'm gonna try that as a defense if I get arrested :lol:


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13 Aug 2017, 5:00 pm

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kraftiekortie wrote:
Just try not to get arrested lol


I'm a fast runner with Ferret like abilities so it's not likely :lol:


Good :D . We need our Ferrapist and Ferret leader!


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13 Aug 2017, 5:01 pm

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StampySquiddyFan wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
will@rd wrote:
Broken Sun Beam wrote:
Thanks everyone for your responses. I've ultimately chosen not to pursue this unless a doctor recommends it. I spoke with my sister who has a very level head about most things and she recommended against it unless it's absolutely necessary. She said that she felt I handled situations with police officers well and unless something develops to simply leave it be.


I disagree, and I frankly don't think most autistic people - especially the more high functioning - understand how critical this could become. Because of issues like selective mutism, it is entirely possible that under severe stress, an autistic person, even after being read their miranda rights, might find it impossible to ask for legal counsel.

If then, you were asked direct questions and so much as shrugged yes or no as an answer, that could be construed as "confession" (and don't think LE "heroes" won't stoop to bullying and trickery to incriminate you, just to make themselves look badass).

Having your disability up front and unmistakable could only help, if you ever had to defend yourself in court. You are not like everybody else, and if you are held to the same standards as a normal person, you will get screwed every time.


My GF has always told me if I get arrested , I should always ask to see a Doctor and explain my situation before I speak to anyone. Luckily I've never had to put it into practice , so cant say if it's a good idea or not. :roll:


Lol you can tell the police that you have a SFD (save ferrets disorder :lol: ). I'm joking, of course! :D


You may jest , but I'm gonna try that as a defense if I get arrested :lol:


I would love to see what police would say to that :lol: .


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