Joined: 3 Oct 2017 Gender: Female Posts: 3,723 Location: England
19 Dec 2017, 8:16 am
My Mum would make a push every so often to get me to join something, ballet, Brownies, youth club, but I refused and since I was usually very obedient I got away with it. I think my parents were relieved not to have to pay or have the bother of taking me. When we went to Bulletin's holiday camp my Mum insisted I had to join 'the Beaver's' (it was free) for one activity, I was furious. As soon as I could, I got away, and then fell in the lake. She had to buy me a new pair of trainers because mine were soaking wet but she never made me join anything again
Joined: 3 Oct 2017 Gender: Female Posts: 3,723 Location: England
19 Dec 2017, 8:52 am
kraftiekortie wrote:
If I replaced my sneakers each time they got soaked, I’d be bankrupt
I still kept the others but it took 3 days for them to dry out, the holiday was only a week. I think it was the thought of me squelching along beside her that persuaded my Mum to buy me new trainers.
Joined: 3 Oct 2017 Gender: Female Posts: 3,723 Location: England
19 Dec 2017, 8:56 am
ladyelaine wrote:
I think NTs tend to go way overboard with putting their children in extra curricular activities. Do kids need to have constant activities after school? I don't think so. Kids need time to be kids and play with their friends and siblings. I know kids that didn't want to be in all the activities that their parents signed them up for. These kids usually just wanted unstructured playtime with their friends or they hated the activity that their parents made them do. Extra Curricular activities are nothing more than a way for parents to compete with each other through their kids. What do you guys think?
I think being bored and then finding ways of entertaining oneself is important in childhood. I can't imagine going through life feeling all the gaps need to be filled.
Joined: 6 May 2017 Age: 27 Gender: Female Posts: 3,231 Location: England
19 Dec 2017, 9:14 am
I used to go to all sorts of dance lessons as extra curricular; tap, ballet, modern, street, ect.
Sadly, I was not the most elegant of dancers...there's a reason my tap dance teacher made me stand behind the curtain during show performances. I saw the back of that curtain a lot, it was quite dusty but the fabric was alright. Someone really should've cleaned that thing.
Joined: 6 May 2017 Age: 27 Gender: Female Posts: 3,231 Location: England
19 Dec 2017, 9:54 am
kraftiekortie wrote:
I deliberately sang out of tune at “glee club” so I would be exempt from it.
I was told to just “move my lips.”
Haha, makes me wonder how the film "Fame" would've gone if someone was trying to fail on purpose because they didn't want to be in that performing arts school but someone pressured them into going or something.
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I was in Boy Scouts for one year. Found it boring. Quit.
My brother wanted to be in Boy Scouts when he was little, but they didn't make him feel welcome. The parents and kids in that pack were snobs. I knew an autistic boy that was in Boy Scouts in the area I live in now. His mom was a total snob. I was kind enough to be Mary for their float in the Christmas Parades in my area, but this woman deleted me off her Facebook page a couple months later . Why? I don't know and I don't care.
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