FKKED UP THINGS COMMONLY BELIEVED BY NTS
1. Aim for the stars! You can do anything if you try!
2. All able bodied people can and should be self supporting.
3. All people should be happy and peppy all the time and go through life with a smile on their face.
4. Act your age.
5. Holidays and vacations should be lots of stress and work and cost way to much money, fun optional.
6. This shouldnt take all day (NTs often dont seem to get that some things DO take all day, or two days for that matter).
7. Everyone should think and act just as they do.
Perfect list. I could add more points of my own but I'm content with saying "ditto" here. Fireworks and special spotlights should shine on items three and five.
1) This is true - it's just that too many people aim for the couch (along with a beer and a doobie) instead of improving themselves.
2) This is obvious - there's a job for everyone.
3) True - my smile is just turned upside down.
4) Act your age and not your shoe size. One of my
co - workers was acting her shoe size at the Christmas party this year by getting overly drunk and throwing up several times in the supervisors home bathroom. She also was talking non - stop about all of her sex practices and f*ck buddies. Needless to say, she's all the talk at the medication machine. She should have acted her age.
5) From experience, this is true. That's why I hate holidays and don't take vacations.
6) If something takes all day, I call it a job and I better be getting paid for it or paying someone else to do it.
7) Actually, I had to read this several times to understand it. Anyway, if everyone acted like me - it would be a perfect world. It's far from being a perfect world. Maybe there's more Aspies out there than I thought.
The only thing Id like to adress is your response to my #7. OK, so people like us who are less than one percent of the population are the reason for all the fkked up things in the world, in spite of the fact that people like you are the clear cut majority and control all the governments and institutions. Interesting. All you need is an imagined victim status to go with that and youve got Nazi Germany.
I saw in other posts of yours that you admitted to being kicked out of another Aspie forum twice. If you got kicked out once and came back under a new profile, thats classic troll behaviour. Just wondering why you are here. As I told Omniel, if its just to hate and badmouth us, there are plenty of forums where you would be a hero for that.
1. Aim for the stars! You can do anything if you try!
2. All able bodied people can and should be self supporting.
3. All people should be happy and peppy all the time and go through life with a smile on their face.
4. Act your age.
5. Holidays and vacations should be lots of stress and work and cost way to much money, fun optional.
6. This shouldnt take all day (NTs often dont seem to get that some things DO take all day, or two days for that matter).
7. Everyone should think and act just as they do.
Perfect list. I could add more points of my own but I'm content with saying "ditto" here. Fireworks and special spotlights should shine on items three and five.
8. There is no I in TEAM (usually said by NTs in authority who really mean there is no ME in TEAM, ie they want someone else to do everything they dont like).
nts I know think I am nervous and that I can stop being nervous. That I should change and be normal, that I am sick. I understand and see faith in what someone said and I have the same faith but I believe I am this way for a reason and I don't want to change. How do I explain that to the people at my church and to nts who believe I need to recover?
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whether as victor or vanquished, isn't it better than sullen resignation?
I'm not sure that you can explain to NTs in a way that they can understand. Gaining acceptance and understanding from NTs will always remain our greatest challenge as Autistics. NTs really have a hard time making exceptions to rules they have always accepted their entire lives. To them it means that they would have to treat you specially and for many NTs this is really distasteful thing to do for them for some reason.
Perhaps if you could simply say to the NTs that bother you that you are mentally disabled and that your actions may seem inexplicable to them and that you need their understanding and acceptance perhaps they may give you an exception. But this is a long shot, I grant you. I have had limited success telling people I'm mentally disabled but some will accept me and others will not and will simply bully or make fun of me for being honest with them.
Always exercise caution when dealing with NTs in this manner!
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I think the best thing is to explain that your behaviour is perfectly normal for someone who's autistic. That your way of doing things and seeing things is not better not worse, just different. I am doing this, I am keeping the message simple, repeating it often, when calm, and it is beginning to have an effect.
The constant expectation and pressure to make more effort, try harder, do something about my issues, to CHANGE, is easing. This is because after 20 years of seeing myself as someone with mentle health problems, obsessive behaviour, anxiety, depression, whatever the name is for finding other people exhausting is, finding out I'm an asperger has changed my view of myself. I already knew I was a nice person, and that I didn't really want to change, but now I feel I can say that out loud. I DON'T NEED TO CHANGE!
I am still looking into ways to help me cope with life though, just not with a 'cure attitude' which never made sense to me even when I thought I was mentally ill. Interestingly since I have prioritised dealing with my anxiety instead of trying to cure my obsessive behaviour (contamination) I have coped with contamination issues much better.
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Presumptuous stuff by the majority through emotionalism, optimism, and sociocultural context because they're generally lazy and too sheltered to think, let alone try something to deviate from those in general.
Simply because that's what most of their life is composed of. Anything else would induce panic, of breaking the illusion that fulfills their concept of 'order' that they depend on.
Therefore, they suggest "should's" while not understanding anything beyond of those presumptions.
If you guys think average Americans and Europeans are like that, you guys had yet to see worse and more of the ridiculousness of what the Neurotypical mind, let alone humanity would do so 'believe'...
In mass scale majority instead of minority culture or rare individual exceptions no less.
But then, you guys already had enough with that 'level' of "FKKED UP THINGS" in practice... So I'm just gonna leave it there. ![]()
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all questions are good. (in 7th grade, questions are called "interrogative statements". there are 4 types of statements: declarative, interrogative, imperative, exclamatory. none of the statements is inherently good or bad.) ("quest" sounds like a good thing.)
"can you" is the etiquette equivalent of "would you please", as if, if you are physically capable of doing so, you have a moral obligation to do so.
"what" and "huh" is the etiquette equivalent of "excuse me".
it is necessary to verbally announce every thought and action going through his or her head.
everyone is either completely good or completely bad. and it is obvious who is which one. and he/she is perfect. and everyone different is bad, wrong, morally inferior. not a person. and has no rights or emotions.
just b/c he/she belongs to a group (religion, politics, neurotypical, cisgender, race, sexual orientation) that outnumbers you, he/she morally overpowers you. but the solar system contains more defendants convicted of murder, than winners of the Nobel Prize. it does not necessarily follow, that the activity with more participants is more morally justified.
when they make social plans, they can bail within 2 hours of the planned arrangement. or they can just not show up. and they have not done anything wrong.
their dog is just like a human. their dog wears clothes and gets called "he" and "she", instead of "it". "she's friendly". dispositional versus situational. the owner has no way of knowing the dog won't bite, unless the owner is psychic or telepathic.
1) This is true - it's just that too many people aim for the couch (along with a beer and a doobie) instead of improving themselves.
2) This is obvious - there's a job for everyone.
3) True - my smile is just turned upside down.
4) Act your age and not your shoe size. One of my
co - workers was acting her shoe size at the Christmas party this year by getting overly drunk and throwing up several times in the supervisors home bathroom. She also was talking non - stop about all of her sex practices and f*ck buddies. Needless to say, she's all the talk at the medication machine. She should have acted her age.
5) From experience, this is true. That's why I hate holidays and don't take vacations.
6) If something takes all day, I call it a job and I better be getting paid for it or paying someone else to do it.
7) Actually, I had to read this several times to understand it. Anyway, if everyone acted like me - it would be a perfect world. It's far from being a perfect world. Maybe there's more Aspies out there than I thought.
The only thing Id like to adress is your response to my #7. OK, so people like us who are less than one percent of the population are the reason for all the fkked up things in the world, in spite of the fact that people like you are the clear cut majority and control all the governments and institutions. Interesting. All you need is an imagined victim status to go with that and youve got Nazi Germany.
I saw in other posts of yours that you admitted to being kicked out of another Aspie forum twice. If you got kicked out once and came back under a new profile, thats classic troll behaviour. Just wondering why you are here. As I told Omniel, if its just to hate and badmouth us, there are plenty of forums where you would be a hero for that.
I'M HATING AND BADMOUTHING YOU? WTF! THIS WHOLE THREAD IS FULL OF HATE AND BAD MOUTHING! Grow up! And don't talk about me getting kicked out of another forum because you have no idea what really happened. And like another Aspie said, you give Aspies a bad name. If they were all like you, I wouldn't have stuck around for 2 seconds.
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Me grumpy?
I'm happiness challenged.
Your neurodiverse (Aspie) score: 83 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 153 of 200 You are very likely neurotypical
Darn, I flunked.
please stick to judging people you know.
the nurse is right, the bigotry in this thread has crossed the line and i regret letting this go on for as long as it has. thread locked.
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