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13 Jan 2018, 2:35 pm

The walls here are thick so most of the noises are quite silent and I am okay with that. Sometimes in summer when I have windows open, I may even enjoy the sounds of living unless it is something loud or unusual. What really sets me of is that my neighbours often seem to argue and it affects directly on my mood so that I have to listen music out loud to avoid hearing. Other annoying thing is neighbours having party or otherwise talking very loud when I try to sleep.



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13 Jan 2018, 9:55 pm

Noisy neighbors are annoying. We used to have an extremely noisy family of 4 one floor down. I rejoiced when they moved.

Thankfully there is seldom loud music or parties, and it's really quiet considering that the number of kids living here.

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13 Jan 2018, 9:59 pm

Thankfully mine are really quiet and put up with my noise without complaint. I drive a diesel powered pickup truck and repowered my custom antique garden tractor with a diesel. I find the sound of a diesel soothing and can fall asleep to it. Obviously I wear my ear muffs on my tractor since its loud. We used to have neighbors next door at our first apartment we had once we got married that would argue for hours on end. It was better than TV, we would both have a water glass up to the wall with our ear to it listening! AD


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13 Jan 2018, 11:44 pm

I’m very sensitive to noise, not all noise, I HATED my upstairs neighbors noises, they moved, so I’m in peace & quiet, I don’t think the upstairs apartment is rented out. Who in their right minds would want that apartment, the rent is over $1,900 & it a one bedroom apartment, but it is a very big apartment. I hope I can move before I get new neighbors.



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14 Jan 2018, 9:11 am

Any kind of noise from my downstairs neighbour, or people coming into the building to do work etc... I find really stressful. I need complete silence around me to relax.

I have to deal with my fellow employees, and other people throughout the day. I need to be able to try and forget that anybody else exists to relax.



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14 Jan 2018, 9:36 am

Depends what I want to do at home.
If I couldn't filter out the noise and in need of focus, I'll be annoyed and frustrated. If my mind is just wandering around, where I don't have to focus to enjoy, I wouldn't mind even if I'm going to sleep.

If it woke me up at night, I'd be likely be grateful at it. :lol:
If I have nothing better to do or think about, I'd just question it to myself and imagine what was going on or, well, nothing.


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14 Jan 2018, 8:00 pm

I'm pretty much immune to neighborhood noise by now. There are gunshots going off in the woods behind my house, my neighbor's pig squealing, dogs barking, clanking tools across the street and a welding machine in my neighbor's garage. The kid across the street who plays the trumpet and clarinet. A carpenter who works next door, hammering all day long. There's the highway a half mile down the street and another road right behind our house that's infamous for street racing/crashes. It's actually not as bad as it sounds - it's rarely all going at once. And to be honest, my family probably adds its own fair share to the cacophony, but I kind of appreciate it all. It's a really diverse neighborhood, full of interesting people that I can listen to going about their day, and I like that about it.


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14 Jan 2018, 10:54 pm

It usually startles me, but I am okay with it. I am a very easy person to startle and spook, lol. I also play a lot of musical instruments that I know must be audible to the neighbors, so I forgive whatever noise they send my way as long as it's at a proper hour.



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15 Jan 2018, 11:24 am

My neighbours are actually pretty quiet on both sides of me. I might hear a TV from time to time, but that's nothing.


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15 Jan 2018, 7:14 pm

I wish Autism people could live in a soundproof building or an apartment building for Autism people.



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16 Jan 2018, 3:45 am

I've always lived in apartment complexes and neighbour noise is always an issue and even at this age I still haven't found a way to deal with it. It always sets me off and makes me very angry when I hear any kind of noise whatsoever from my neighbours - up down left or right.

Stomping around above me, loud music, loud parties or TV on too loud are just a small set of examples that I've had to deal with over the past 25 years. I've always wished that I could move out of the big city and into a small town and into a house with a lot of distance between me and my neighbours and soundproof windows.

This might be an impossible task.


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16 Jan 2018, 3:47 am

Kitty4670 wrote:
I wish Autism people could live in a soundproof building or an apartment building for Autism people.


Right?!? I'd be all over that.

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16 Jan 2018, 9:12 am

Kitty4670 wrote:
I wish Autism people could live in a soundproof building or an apartment building for Autism people.


Hmm but not all autistic people are quiet and some apparently can have very loud melt downs even as an adult. Wouldn't an apartment building for people who agree to live quietly be better?



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16 Jan 2018, 3:20 pm

Kitty4670 wrote:
I wish Autism people could live in a soundproof building or an apartment building for Autism people.


An adobe building with three foot thick walls would be really great. Not much in the way of sounds could get through that kind of building at all.



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16 Jan 2018, 3:31 pm

Generally I am not too bothered by it...I mean if you live on a bottom floor there is going to be some noise above, so whatever. But yeah what I don't like is when I hear the upstairs neighbors shouting and shrieking at each other, stomping and slamming doors, no one wants to hear that. Also while this is not the worst its at least annoying...seems like every morning before midday I hear the bathtub getting filled up there, only to be drained immediately after.

But none of those are the worst...lol have you ever had your upstairs neighbors overfill their sink so it drains down into your kitchen, uhhh I mean that is the biggest thing I don't care for the upstairs neighbors for I just picture a bunch of slobs living up there.


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16 Jan 2018, 4:06 pm

Sweetleaf wrote:
Generally I am not too bothered by it...I mean if you live on a bottom floor there is going to be some noise above, so whatever. But yeah what I don't like is when I hear the upstairs neighbors shouting and shrieking at each other, stomping and slamming doors, no one wants to hear that. Also while this is not the worst its at least annoying...seems like every morning before midday I hear the bathtub getting filled up there, only to be drained immediately after.

But none of those are the worst...lol have you ever had your upstairs neighbors overfill their sink so it drains down into your kitchen, uhhh I mean that is the biggest thing I don't care for the upstairs neighbors for I just picture a bunch of slobs living up there.


Noise coming through the ceiling or floors is the worst of all for some reason. I'd rather have noise from the neighbor next door than from one above or below.

I remember one Sunday morning in the late 1970s the neighbors next door to me in a fourplex were arguing very loudly. I found that kind of entertaining. The argument was about whether they were going to her parent's for lunch. She wanted to go, he didn't. That argument made me happy I'm not married.