My suggestion would be to get a second or a third opinion. The advice or assessment of a single doctor can't always be trusted. Many of these therapists and psychologists may have mental issues of their own and they might not be totally focused on you and your problems.
If you are totally convinced that you're an Aspie then seek a higher power if you can't get the help you need. Because what you're seeking is not a label but solutions to the problems that you're having.
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*** High Functioning Autism - Asperger's Syndrome ***
ADHD, OCD, and PTSD.
Keep calm and stim away.
