How can I meet people ?
sorrowfairiewhisper wrote:
Veilmenacex wrote:
You should go to school and attend clubs and events.
Agree with the above. Good luck!
I don't go to school anymore, I left in 2008 and I don't really want to attend a club its not great being there on my own and I have few friends who like that stuff and I would be weird to have my parents come with me too it to make it look as though I have people to socialise with. I don't want that.
Joe90 wrote:
If you want to meet people aged between 18 and 40 you have to be into drinking because it's how pathetic society is in some cultures. If people know you drink, they will include you in Saturday nights out, no matter how socially awkward you are. True fact.
But, like me, you don't like bars and nightclub so assumably you're not much of a drinker either. It's a shame more young people in Western cultures aren't like you and I, and can just socialise and have a good time without playing the "who can get the drunkest as humanly possible?" game, followed by the "how many embarrassing, shameful things can you remember doing last night?" game and the "how much vomit can I puke up in one hour the next morning/how many painful thumps can my headache do in one minute?" game, and then the "who will be the first to get liver disease?" game.
Yep, life sucks donkey balls when you're not interested in intoxicating your body every weekend.
But, like me, you don't like bars and nightclub so assumably you're not much of a drinker either. It's a shame more young people in Western cultures aren't like you and I, and can just socialise and have a good time without playing the "who can get the drunkest as humanly possible?" game, followed by the "how many embarrassing, shameful things can you remember doing last night?" game and the "how much vomit can I puke up in one hour the next morning/how many painful thumps can my headache do in one minute?" game, and then the "who will be the first to get liver disease?" game.
Yep, life sucks donkey balls when you're not interested in intoxicating your body every weekend.
No life doesn't suck if you don't enjoy drinking too much booze. I believe that it shows you're intelligence is superior to the drunkards. Not drinking excessively might make early life boring, but hey, at least you'll be healthy when you retire!
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chris1989 wrote:
sorrowfairiewhisper wrote:
Veilmenacex wrote:
You should go to school and attend clubs and events.
Agree with the above. Good luck!
I don't go to school anymore, I left in 2008 and I don't really want to attend a club its not great being there on my own and I have few friends who like that stuff and I would be weird to have my parents come with me too it to make it look as though I have people to socialise with. I don't want that.
I understand and yes It can be off putting having a parent there too, I can relate to that. Have you enquired about perhaps a meet up group? for those with aspergers?
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