Self Diagnosis? Help.

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As has been mentioned you have many of the traits associated with autism. I have noticed that people react in different ways to this realization. Some are content to believe they are or probably are autistic and move on with their life with this new understanding. Others need validation of their suspicions by a professional. If you have not figured out your needs in this regard you probably should.

I am not sure how it works in Canada a professional diagnosis may make you eligible for benifits and possibly accomidations if sometime in the future you go to work.

A formal diagnosis can be a very helpful , validating experience for you , it was for me . High functioning is a measure of how well you have adapted your behavior to be acceptable and make others feel comfortable . Don't invalidate yourself by thinking your autism is 'mild ' or less than others . Autism is autism , we all respond to it in our own unique way , that's why it's called a spectrum . Self awareness is vital to living with this neurological condition and if you find a therapist that can help you with this , consider yourself fortunate . For me , the best benefit was simply knowing that I was on the spectrum , not knowing kicked my butt .

There isn't really a way to know from a description, but for what it's worth, the traits you mentioned are ASD-like.
After a few years of considering the idea and researching Autism I decided that I was likely to be somewhere on the spectrum; part of the process was reflecting on self observations and those of people close to me (other people's perception of us is a key aspect of diagnosis), allowing for variables that alter perception e.g. Anxiety, bias etc.
When I had the means, I went to a Psychologist specialising in ASD (in particular female presentation), but that was the decision that was right for me.

I personally think professional diagnosis is important. In saying that, it's not a judgment on those who don't (or can't) get one. I was very lucky to find a psychologist who was knowledgeable about autism and was able to see me for free, and I can definitely understand how your personal history complicates things. BUT if you find a good professional, there should be work arounds, e.g. behavioural and school reports, any other reports from social workers etc. you may have seen along the way. And husbands often have very good insight into their wives. E.g. I answered my psychologist that I thought I understood sarcasm well and that I never flap my hands etc. My husband was like, no way!

For me it was important to have a professional diagnosis as I was teetering on a breakdown and need significant help with life and accommodations in life. I've 'coped' with life until kids but barely participating (working or studying only part time and just living on very little), but having kids has meant I'm pushed beyond my limits and need help, because I want to learn to live a normal life, have a job and balance all the pieces. Now I can see that with help that will be possible.