11 year old with autism given "most annoying malw" award at.

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17 Jun 2019, 7:05 am

I got one award in school: weirdest noisemaker. That was in 3rd grade.

Now granted, I grew up in the 70s and there was zero tolerance of any differences. And the very first diagnosis I was given was ADHD, treated with Ritalin. I have respect for what teachers do, I would NEVER downplay some of the things they must put up with from students and parents alike. That being said, some of them made grave mistakes when they became teachers and are not suited to it. They can be cruel and spiteful.

I experienced it with just the diagnosis of ADHD. My 5th grade teacher screamed out, " did you take your medication?!" And the kids were like, "what medication?!" I was in tears. I come from the Southern US., my Mom told the teacher that if she ever did that to me again she was going to wait for her in the parking lot and kick her ass. This was at a private, Christian school :lol:

The teacher who gave this to that little boy should be fired. And, when no one is looking, get her ass kicked. I know that this may be an unpopular approach, but it's my feeling that there are certain circumstances that only a good old fashioned ass whooping will cure.

Please, do not throw me out over this post. If it's unacceptable, I will not say it again. I just happen to believe that you should not hurt children and I am very protective of them. :heart:


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17 Jun 2019, 8:19 am

In addition to being abusive, the "award" makes no sense. Why specify "most annoying male" if there was no "most annoying female"?


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17 Jun 2019, 9:20 am

Documents: Gary principal to be fired over confrontation with mother, failure to prescreen 'annoying award' for autistic boy

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Gary Preparatory Principal Carlita Royal is facing termination over a “verbal conflict” with the mother of an autistic boy given a “most annoying” award at the school last month.

She is also cited for failing to prescreen the 5th grade student poll, with trophies given at an end-of-school ceremony at the Merrillville Golden Corral on May 23, according to documents obtained in a public records request.

After the May 23 incident, Gary Community School Corp. announced it would seek to fire three teachers: special education teacher Alexis Anderson-Harper and fifth-grade teachers Bianca Jones and Crystal Beeks. It later announced Royal would also be fired.

Prior interviews with the parents indicated that Anderson-Harper was the child’s teacher, while Jones and Beeks might have helped to create the awards list.

Royal, Anderson-Harper, Beeks were not immediately available for comment. Via text, Jones declined comment.

In an interview, Rick Castejon, father of the child, Akalis, 11, confirmed his wife Estella confronted Royal at the school’s office the next day.

His wife was told to make an appointment, he said. She was told “we don’t have time for this right now,” he said.

Estella Castejon then demanded to see Anderson-Harper, her son’s special education teacher, Rick Castejon added.

“Carlita wouldn’t let her,” he said.

She was told if she went toward the classroom, she was going to have a cop there, Rick Castejon said. As she left, Estella Castejon angrily put the trophy on the front desk counter in the school’s office.

“Maybe you guys are annoying, but my son’s not annoying,” she said, according to Rick Castejon.

In documents signed by Deputy Superintendent Nakia Douglas, school superiors concluded that Royal’s contract as an administrator and teacher with Gary Community Schools be terminated, in part because Royal, as witnessed by other staff, was “inappropriate and unprofessional” toward the boy’s mother.

They also concluded she failed to give a full account of her interactions with the Castejon family — omitting the incident — during their investigation.

“Despite being asked through the investigation to relay all communications that had occurred between you and the student’s family, you did not disclose this in-person verbal conflict with the mother,” the documents state. “As an administrator, it is your duty to cooperate in personnel investigations and to truthfully and fully answer all questions posed to you.

“In addition, you have a duty to always maintain professional communications and interactions with parents of your students,” the documents added. “By failing to handle yourself in a professional manner toward the student’s mother when she came to your office, you neglected this duty.”

The documents add that at first, Royal told them she did not prescreen the awards, believing it was a practice that predated her at Bailly Prep. If she had seen the list, she would not have approved it, documents state.

She later acknowledged the “most annoying award” had been added this year by two teachers.

Royal, 35, was placed on paid leave on June 7. On June 11, she received a letter saying her contract would be cancelled, pending an appeals process.

Anderson-Harper, 42, awarded the trophy to the boy and a “female general education student,” documents state. She was reprimanded in a memo the next day, on May 24.

On June 6, the district sent a letter to her, signed by Royal, recommending she be fired.

The Post-Tribune has also filed a public records request for documents on teacher Crystal Beeks, which the district has not yet provided.

Jones, 42, was accused of creating the “most annoying” award with another teacher as part of a wider student poll.

In the June 7 letter signed by Royal, Jones displayed “poor professional judgment” and failed in her duty as a teacher to treat children with dignity and respect, it stated.

Gary Teachers Union President GlenEva Dunham said earlier via text the union’s lawyer was working to make sure each received due process. Emergency Manager Pete Morikis also said in a public meeting it would be provided.

Both Anderson-Harper and Jones are accused of neglect in their duties as a teacher and just cause. They have five days from each letter to set up an appeals appointment with Deputy Superintendent Nakia Douglas. After that meeting, they would have another five days to set up another meeting with Morikis.

If none appeal, the decision to fire them stands, records state.


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17 Jun 2019, 5:41 pm

Benjamin the Donkey wrote:
In addition to being abusive, the "award" makes no sense. Why specify "most annoying male" if there was no "most annoying female"?

There was another "Most Annoying" award winner, which everyone keeps ignoring.
"Both Castejon and Marlene Jones, whose daughter was also in Anderson-Harper’s class, said they saw the awarding of a second “Most Annoying” trophy to another student."
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https://www.nwitimes.com/news/education/teacher-says-she-s-a-scapegoat-after-student-with-autism/article_e06d2842-5d94-5bc6-ae23-e74e552118f5.html



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17 Jun 2019, 6:55 pm

The teacher needs to move on to another profession. Apparently teaching is not for her.


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18 Jun 2019, 2:33 am

Mother angry after autistic son given 'Most Likely to Get Lost in a Crowd' certificate

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A Massachusetts mother is angry after her autistic son was given the superlative "Most Likely to Get Lost in a Crowd."

Desiree Perez says she found a blue certificate among other paperwork when she went to pick up her son's report card on the last day of school.

"I didn't think it was funny. My son didn't find it funny either. He said why was the teacher giving him this award because he was never lost in school," said Perez.

She said the paper was signed by a group of teachers, including her son's.

Perez says she contacted the school and met with her son's principal.

"He said he was sorry about it," she said. "He was asking for me to forgive this incident, and he said that he couldn't do anything about the teachers because they had already left for vacation."

The New Bedford School District says the superintendent is aware of the situation and a full investigation is underway.

The bolded part is the worst excuse for anything I have ever read because the teachers can be dealt with when they come back from vacation after the summer.

We always say kids can be mean but adults are just as bad.


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