Mapofsteel wrote:
I very often feel that those of us in the autism spectrum are really essentially a completely different species from neurotypicals, and that aside from human biology we are completely different and can never understand one another, no matter how hard we try.
My NT friend and I can have long conversations about people who don't understand even the most obvious cross-species communication. If you send a dog to get help, it will attract attention, and then invite following by checking over its shoulder while running as fast as someone is willing to chase, but no faster. We have both enjoyed life with dogs immensely by noticing and encouraging their intelligence, instead of just trying for obedience. Mine was so well behaved that I took him everywhere except food stores, where he waited outside, and was never challenged to get a leash. I didn't have to say a word - he knew an appropriate distance.
Koko the Gorilla was taught sign language, and lived in a lab. She got a pet kitten she loved and named "All Ball." Then, after about six months, the humans came back one morning and found the sink torn from the wall. "What happened?" they signed.
"All Ball did it" replied Koko.