1 visit away from a possible diagnosis, but...
If only ASD adults were as easily fixable as cars with flat tyres...
But yes, it's a bit like telling one that their engine may explode any minute, it's not desigend to work under such pressure, but as it didn't explode yet, it will pass. Come back after it explodes, we'll try to save some scraps of your car if any survive.
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Let's not confuse being normal with being mentally healthy.
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You guys! I love this car analogy! Brilliant!
It takes a huge amount of effort to run the car on all 4 flat tires. Now even more with my son also displaying “flat tire” symptoms too.
Yesterday he started with some persistent behaviors, growing very impatient while I was driving and I had to be very calm. I know he is frustrated, I understand his frustration. I’m dealing with my own frustrations while driving. Traffic, driving through a new route that I had never gone through before, feeling very tired, going to a place I didn’t want to go. So I’m trying to calm him down and concentrate on the road, and stay calm myself, all at the same time. It takes a lot of energy. Does it make sense?
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- RAADS-R: 134 (cut off for ASD diagnosis is >=65)
- CASD: 20 (cut off for ASD >=14)
- SRS-2: T score = 68
Diagnosed with ASD Level 1 on 10/28/19 (Better late than never)
Mom to 9 y/o boy diagnosed with ASD and ADHD on 11/15/19
It takes a huge amount of effort to run the car on all 4 flat tires. Now even more with my son also displaying “flat tire” symptoms too.
Yesterday he started with some persistent behaviors, growing very impatient while I was driving and I had to be very calm. I know he is frustrated, I understand his frustration. I’m dealing with my own frustrations while driving. Traffic, driving through a new route that I had never gone through before, feeling very tired, going to a place I didn’t want to go. So I’m trying to calm him down and concentrate on the road, and stay calm myself, all at the same time. It takes a lot of energy. Does it make sense?
Yes. It makes sense.

Driving is not easy with distractions. The times I have had to drive my brothers children places took a lot out of me, as so many voices talking while I'm driving! It was difficult. I find I rarely ever drive with the radio on. I have done but rare. I like to have a quiet car.

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PM only.
Yes, mountain goat. High pitch children talking loud in the backseat, and asking you questions while you are trying to follow the GPS is quite the task....
I don’t usually listen to music in the car either.
And I absolutely hate driving on a path that I’ve never been before. If it’s a quiet road, it’s not so bad. But busy unknown highways are so stressful!
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- RAADS-R: 134 (cut off for ASD diagnosis is >=65)
- CASD: 20 (cut off for ASD >=14)
- SRS-2: T score = 68
Diagnosed with ASD Level 1 on 10/28/19 (Better late than never)
Mom to 9 y/o boy diagnosed with ASD and ADHD on 11/15/19
I don’t usually listen to music in the car either.
And I absolutely hate driving on a path that I’ve never been before. If it’s a quiet road, it’s not so bad. But busy unknown highways are so stressful!
I can't deal with sat navs at all. I don't mind exploring new roads and often do as long as I stay in Wales and don't stray in the cities of Wales which are in the south east, I am ok. The other roads are fine as even if I get lost, I just keep going and I will come out on one of the larger roads that I recognize (Even if vaguely recognize) I am fine. I try my best to keep out of cities, as I hate traffic jams. I have been known to drive 50 miles out of my way to avoid a traffic jam.
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PM only.
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