At what age was it obvious you weren't NT?

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I was seen as special when I was reading fluently at age 2 or 3. (Not sure about my NT/ND status, though.)

When I went to kindergarten at age 4. If course, there was no one had a satisfactory explanation back then.

My family knew I was different from an early age, but they didn't seek out a diagnosis for me. i spent a lot of time around my mother's family and they were loud, chaotic, awful. I knew I wasn't like them. I also became aware of how I was different from other kids when I was out in preschool at age three. I didn't know what autism was, but I knew I wasn't like other people.

I think most autistic people start thinking they're different between 9 to 18 months old.

My father:

I think it’s been apparent right from the start that I’m different. I know for sure my first special interest in insects/arthropods became apparent very early, I remember at age 3 wanting to hold a spider but not wanting to risk getting bitten, so I was calling to the spider to climb onto a book I was holding. My parents say that one of my first words was “caterpillar.”

Never really. I mean I was weird but always thought it's just some personal, unique flaw in me. It used to frustrate me that I knew I was weird but I didn't know how to stop it.

16/17/18 range when it became obvious to me that I wasn't connecting with others just because I was "book smart". Diagnosed at 18.

I think I was about 7 or 8. I was always a loner in school and tended to be left out. Looking back though I was perfectly content with this and wasn’t even aware of how much of a loner I was until it was made really obvious, like when we had to break into groups for an activity and I had no friends to let me in their group. But unless something like this happened, I was usually pretty unaware of my misfit status. I’m not diagnosed with AS but I think this is a pretty classic symptom.

Unknown. Likely ages 7-8 related to social concerns at school.

It became truly obvious at ages 9-13.

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Hard one to answer. Could see/feel differences in childhood. I still thought adulthood would somehow be different. When it wasn't, I think that's when I realized that my differences weren't just childhood/teenage differences.

I'd say mid-20s is when I accepted it, or realized it was a life-long thing. Though I was obvious to the fact that I was different (or that most others were different from me) in elementary school. Teenage years is when the blatant schism became evident, though I didn't realize it would last (or be just as crippling) beyond adolescence.

I always knew I was different as I always referred to as fidgety, hyper, stubborn, and defiant. I usually played alone as a child and avoided group activities and sports. When I was 12 I stumbled on a TV documentary about autism and related so much to the kid in the show. I sort of just tried to forget about because I thought if I actually autistic a teacher or family member would tell me. It wasn't until I was in my early 20s and exploring my neurotypical characteristics that I realized I'm probably autistic and at age 26 I was formally diagnosed.