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Iphone31966
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30 Oct 2020, 9:53 pm

The services are dead ends.



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30 Oct 2020, 10:01 pm

The police are not the answer. What is the answer? There is no answer.



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01 Nov 2020, 4:44 pm

HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP!



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01 Nov 2020, 4:56 pm

Iphone31966 wrote:
HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP! HELP!


HOW? HOW? HOW? HOW? HOW? HOW? HOW? HOW? HOW? HOW? HOW? HOW? HOW? HOW? HOW?



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01 Nov 2020, 8:28 pm

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I've been verbally, psychologically, physically, and sexually abused. This is America. An abuse hotline will hear you out, but as far as I know we do not have abuse shelters [and few other such resources] for males in the Eastern US. Know that it's not okay, that you are not alone, and do not do anything rash. One in six boys or men are raped or sexually assaulted, and as many as one in four adult men report psychological and physical abuse at home at some point in their life. Hang in there, and feel free to PM me if you prefer to talk privately. I can't offer more than what I've gained through experience and recovery, but it is indeed possible to move on. If the abuse puts you in danger, research resources for homeless shelters. These are the only options for abused men in most of the US.

My heart breaks for what you have been through.
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You are so right though. The resources are so nonexistent. And there is no such thing as help for Autistics who are emotionally, psychologically, and mentally abused and tortured by a society that cannot and will not understand us. I have been fighting so hard to try to get my area to create programs that meet our needs but the agencies just refuse. It's very difficult. I am so sorry that you have been so hurt.


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01 Nov 2020, 8:29 pm

Iphone31966 wrote:
The services are dead ends.
How old are you and where in PA are you?


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01 Nov 2020, 9:15 pm

There is nothing that helps with abuse because universities don't teach human rights. Universities teach abuse. Universities produce abusive abusers who abuse.



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01 Nov 2020, 9:23 pm

^ I'm confused.
Are you living with someone who is abusing you? What do universities have to do with abuse?



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01 Nov 2020, 9:27 pm

Iphone31966 wrote:
There is nothing that helps with abuse because universities don't teach human rights. Universities teach abuse. Universities produce abusive abusers who abuse.


That reminds me of what I heard from a guy who had been required to attend "women's studies."



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01 Nov 2020, 10:05 pm

skibum wrote:
DeepBlueSouth wrote:
I've been verbally, psychologically, physically, and sexually abused. This is America. An abuse hotline will hear you out, but as far as I know we do not have abuse shelters [and few other such resources] for males in the Eastern US. Know that it's not okay, that you are not alone, and do not do anything rash. One in six boys or men are raped or sexually assaulted, and as many as one in four adult men report psychological and physical abuse at home at some point in their life. Hang in there, and feel free to PM me if you prefer to talk privately. I can't offer more than what I've gained through experience and recovery, but it is indeed possible to move on. If the abuse puts you in danger, research resources for homeless shelters. These are the only options for abused men in most of the US.

My heart breaks for what you have been through.
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You are so right though. The resources are so nonexistent. And there is no such thing as help for Autistics who are emotionally, psychologically, and mentally abused and tortured by a society that cannot and will not understand us. I have been fighting so hard to try to get my area to create programs that meet our needs but the agencies just refuse. It's very difficult. I am so sorry that you have been so hurt.


I have undergone more of this than anyone I ever thought could have been humanly possible.. people who are bastards towards others are satanic and evil and the first to claim otherwise. I use the word bastards sparingly.. Hitler types walk among us.



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01 Nov 2020, 11:13 pm

That could be the mental disorder of abusers. They are demonic.


What happened with a person who criticizes universities? It's dangerous to criticize universities but it has to be done. Some private universities have their own private police force that they own.



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02 Nov 2020, 5:52 pm

Humanity: hey guys lets gang up on the weakling because she's a weakling and if she has a problem with it, it's because she's a weakling

Oh and autistic people lack empathy...



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02 Nov 2020, 6:27 pm

One of the ways that Ma Nature torques humans into acting like a herd is through an instinct for teasing. Among NTs of similar abilities, it is a gentle way of promoting unity. Unfortunately, if it is not working, a lot of people just try harder and harder to impose their point of view. I try to seem that I'm actually an undercover member, scouting for them while looking aloof.



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02 Nov 2020, 9:12 pm

adromedanblackhole wrote:
Humanity: hey guys lets gang up on the weakling because she's a weakling and if she has a problem with it, it's because she's a weakling

Oh and autistic people lack empathy...


Wherever the concept of thinking we lack empathy came from is becoming more and more absurd everytime I see it or think about it.. I'm probably the most emotional living thing I can think of.. maybe it's my inability to express what I feel in a way that's appropriate that this concept stems from?



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02 Nov 2020, 11:04 pm

If anything Autistic people are emotional. Wear Emotions on sleeve. Can't control emotions.

The normal neurotypical zombie represses their emotions.

At this point in time I'm liking lilly who is warm and fuzzier than morticia.



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02 Nov 2020, 11:06 pm

Danusaurus wrote:
adromedanblackhole wrote:
Humanity: hey guys lets gang up on the weakling because she's a weakling and if she has a problem with it, it's because she's a weakling

Oh and autistic people lack empathy...


Wherever the concept of thinking we lack empathy came from is becoming more and more absurd everytime I see it or think about it.. I'm probably the most emotional living thing I can think of.. maybe it's my inability to express what I feel in a way that's appropriate that this concept stems from?


I feel it's just another layer of bullying.
How can you expect a person who's treated as prey by the vast majority of the human population to empathize with their predators?