Mountain Goat wrote:
You are suitable here. I can get similar issues. Wierdly the threads I start that I was thinking were not so good threads so I abandoned them and rarely look at then because I said what I said to get a statement across where I had no further interest in them have taken off with hundreds of replies but I am not part of the thread, but the threads that are meaningful to me sometimes get no replies, or peter out after about three replies and some of those were me.
I am not one who can keep threads going because I am popular. I have noticed on other sites that I seem to be a thread killer! I was scared at one point because whole sites had gone quiet when I write things, but if I then go quiet for a while they picked up again! So when I initisally joined this one and after a few months things went quiet for a short while I was asking if I should leave for the sake of keeping the site running... But I was assured all is ok.
But you are fine. Keep posting regardless of how many replies you get. Some will take off. Others won't. It is how things are.
I have very much noticed how "Allistic like" threads take off like mad. What I mean by allistic type threads is ones that reflect popular oppinions that happen to be in the news or on TV at the time.
Any threads that go contrary to what is popular so they tend to be more autistically written by nature are ones which come under scrutiny or are not replied to so much. This means in theory that even amongst autistic minded people, they are more likely to follow "NT like" thoughts, which goes to show that the autism spectrum is a lot more complicated then one would origionally believe it to be, even amongst the more severely autistic people.
But going back to you posting. Post away. I like your threads, even though some subjects I may not reply on because they may not always catch my interests... This does not make them less valid as we all have our own interests... Where our interests and personalities merge we can have good conversations.
You are a good guy and we need you on this site, as you raise topics and face things that open up our thoughts. In many ways you are more intelligent then me because your use of words is more comprehensive. You use words I don't know what they mean as my ability to use language is limited. I tend to have a low range of words, but use them more often. I think deep thoughts best in picture form. Wierdly I spoke my first three words very early on but then went dead quiet and spoke at the average age that one speaks. It is only when I came into my teenage years onwards that I realized how limited my ability to remember what more complicated words actually mean has been limited. It is why my ability to learn other languages was restricted. But your use of english is amazing to be honest.
Your social communication skills are much better than mine. You have a lot of interesting things to say. As for what's popular - I have little to no idea. I post a lot of non medical articles on a schizophrenia forum I go on . They tend not to be about media personalities.
Intelligence wise I'm extremely insecure. If I fail at something I'm an idiot. If I do well at something most other people would do well at it too. I've done quite a lot of high range IQ tests . During times when I'm highly arrogant and vain(full of false bravado)I've had some of the results added to lists. Maybe it's the same as being added to the scoreboard of an online video game. When it comes to real life though I'm a total failure . Would be f****d without the help and support I get.
My interests include politics, genealogy +DNA and mental health/illness. I could bore you all to death with the latest genealogical thing I'm pondering over.