04 Aug 2007, 10:21 am
04 Aug 2007, 10:58 am
MrMacPhisto wrote:
Another thing that has happened to me recently I now find it really easy to interact with people doesn't matter who the person is I have noticed in discussion groups this week I have contributed alot at my band practice last night I joined in more with the jamming and making jokes about everyone else's playing we joke at each others playing and I was joinning in last night (for the first time). I have been playing in this band for 5 years now I play keyboard and was always described as shy and quiete but not last night.
Next week my mum goes on holiday for a week I use to love my own company but I am not looking forward to all those hours on my own. I'm starting to hate the quiet. I am meeting people in the evenings next week and my work is closed all next week and I have got LONG days on my own until the evening.
What do you think.
This has been going on since I have stopped having meltdowns.
Next week my mum goes on holiday for a week I use to love my own company but I am not looking forward to all those hours on my own. I'm starting to hate the quiet. I am meeting people in the evenings next week and my work is closed all next week and I have got LONG days on my own until the evening.
What do you think.
This has been going on since I have stopped having meltdowns.
Hey Phisto what did you do? Join Toastmasters or something?
Whether or not you have the tic it looks to me like you somehow overcame a big hurdle that we all commonly share out here.
Congratulations!
04 Aug 2007, 11:17 am
9CatMom wrote:
I find it easy to socialize with people who share common interests. If I have nothing in common with a group of people, it is impossible.
Me too. And I hate it also when somebody doesn't have interests at all, doesn't matter much whether somebody's interests are like my own ones (at least to some extent) or not but I can't stand it when there's a person who doesn't know anything because I simply don't have the slightest idea what I should talk to that person about. There are only three girls in my school that I know whose brains are something more than only big, useless pieces of dead meat.
Once, I remember, I was going home and one girl (a stupid one, I must add) joined me and I got into a panic - "what I'll talk to her about" and finally I amused her talking to her about various funny facts concerning sexual life of animals - my companion was laughing hoarsily and making vulgar comments and I was happy that we found common ground
.
During most lessons it's mostly I who talk to a teacher because other students don't know many facts, even those basic ones and they are suprised how I came know about some things. Well, my dear ones, I don't force you to read and acquire knowledge, to enrich your personality and have opinions that are your own ones, not based on what your peers think.
Once our psychopedagogy teacher told us to prepare sheets of paper and write down our names on them - they went round and each student had to write what she (there's only one boy in my group) liked about a person whose name is on. As it turned out, ALL the people wrote on my sheet that the best thing about me is that I never pay attention what others may think about me and my opinions are unbiased.
04 Aug 2007, 1:23 pm
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