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KaleidoscopicMagpie
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21 Apr 2022, 4:47 pm

I'm sorry. She sounds toxic, but I know what it's like to stay in a bad situation because being alone feels worse.

Could you take her to see your doctor with you? Perhaps they could help explain. I can't help but think the problem is her though, and not you.


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22 Apr 2022, 6:50 pm

You should get her out of your life and get a restraining order against her.


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22 Apr 2022, 9:48 pm

You need to find a way out of that situation fast cause though I haven't been in that specific situation it really reminds me of a bit of what I been through especially with the multi hour freak outs and being assaulted. You are better off being alone if you can support yourself. I would not tell the person you are leaving though from personal experience because those kinds of people are very dangerous. Silently plan it and get out of there as soon as you can. Trust me nothing good is going to come out of sticking with that, if she did something like that over that situation, she'll do it over others too.