Yameretzu wrote:
I know both, in my experience it's easier to date an NT because if your both aspie it can be hard when you both have meltdowns.
My long-term partner is an NT, although he is unusually patient; he's not perfect but when I have my meltdown he holds me until I calm down and he tries to help me with my problems. Although sometimes he seems borderline NT/AS so who knows.
As for friends both are fine.
I don't get melt downs. I am the pillor of strngth, especally if I am not lonely.