I can get being protective of a special interest and worrying about being made fun of for it. Which is why I am pretty selective about talking about them, outside of the internet. In fact, this is some of the reason I don't talk much at work, because many years ago, I got myself in trouble for talking too much.
That all said, Frost Bender seems to want to totally conform to being an NT, which if you are on the spectrum, it won't take long for you to burnout fast. I admit I mask sometimes without thinking about it, mostly just to get by in the workplace. Which I need to survive.
However, I've reached the point in my life, where the days of apologizing for me being me are gone and I refuse to play pretend just in order to "have friends".