12 Jun 2025, 12:38 pm
BTDT wrote:
I have a petite hourglass figure and am fortunate to have "passing privilege." Most likely I'm Intersex but haven't been genetically tested.
Pretty much the only way folks know is that I still use my given name instead of a female one.
I am quite confident that my voice, walk, and mannerisms are spot on.
I shop for groceries in kitten heels.
What I find really interesting is that I haven't reached the age of invisibility.
Older women find that nobody sees them.
Guys will park next to me to get a good look at me. Cars always stop to let me cross in front of them.
Dressed as a small guy I was totally invisible.
Pretty much the only way folks know is that I still use my given name instead of a female one.
I am quite confident that my voice, walk, and mannerisms are spot on.
I shop for groceries in kitten heels.
What I find really interesting is that I haven't reached the age of invisibility.
Older women find that nobody sees them.
Guys will park next to me to get a good look at me. Cars always stop to let me cross in front of them.
Dressed as a small guy I was totally invisible.
It honestly means a lot to me that you shared this on my post. I’m still finding my footing, but reading your experience makes me feel more hopeful about the road ahead. You show me it’s possible to be seen and confident. Thank you for being here.
