20 Sep 2007, 4:16 pm
deadeyexx wrote:
Yeah, I hear u man. lol
However, the most social people I've known don't seem to understand what my problem is. That I should just simply relax & go with the flow, which is the opposite of what I do if I'm normally bad at something.
Trying hard not to try so hard. That's a paradox I haven't been able to crack yet.
why dont you use that incredible focus and determination to become an expert at people skills?
However, the most social people I've known don't seem to understand what my problem is. That I should just simply relax & go with the flow, which is the opposite of what I do if I'm normally bad at something.
Trying hard not to try so hard. That's a paradox I haven't been able to crack yet.
Aspie_for_the_Lord wrote:
deadeyexx wrote:
My best quality is my incredible focus and determination. I can become an expert at just about anything I put my mind to.
Worst quality, my lack of people skills.
Its as if I've developed my best quality to achieve greatness alone, where most people with better social skills would have people help them to achieve that level instead.
Worst quality, my lack of people skills.
Its as if I've developed my best quality to achieve greatness alone, where most people with better social skills would have people help them to achieve that level instead.
why dont you use that incredible focus and determination to become an expert at people skills?
i have people tell me that i do ok... yet i still get treated differently, and not invited to parties....
20 Sep 2007, 4:46 pm
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