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Brian003
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24 Sep 2007, 7:09 pm

She doesn't really seem that much AS.

Its very mild.



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24 Sep 2007, 7:12 pm

devster21 wrote:
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devster21 wrote:
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on top model though, size 0 is the thing.

I wonder if I were to say someone was too fat if that would be socially correct.

Its not socially correct to say someone is too skinny either. Either side of the weight scale could be related to an eating disorder.

As for myself I don't mind calling someone skinny. I have a friend thats anorexic and I tell her shes too skinny.


Do you have problems telling someone if they are too fat?


I don't mind the look of overweight people. It doesn't make me gag.


well skinny people have feelings too. Just because you can get away with picking on thin people more than you can overweight people doesn't mean it's okay and how would you like it if someone were to pick on your for your quirks? I'm sure it's already happened but it doesn't feel pleasant now does it?

I can't stand it when people hold preference over what side are their targets of what is okay to bully meanwhile giving the complete opposite side niceness and it usually revolves around insecurities.

Most likely you are probably not skinny and you think the skinny person has more of a chance of being a model than you but hello look at her face! She (not the model, the hypothetical skinny girl) has a giant mole or a scar or some other abnormality that makes her odds just as bad as yours.



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24 Sep 2007, 7:14 pm

Brian003 wrote:
She doesn't really seem that much AS.

Its very mild.


that is what I thought too. Wouldn't she feel strange about random people touching her face to apply makeup and wouldn't all the lights and attention seem unbearable? Maybe she was overly pretending to like attention so that others wouldn't get that she really doesn't??



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24 Sep 2007, 7:25 pm

I'm 6'4" and 190lbs thanks, not exactly fat. Its one of my friends so she knows i'm not being insulting, its an inside joke.

Its not like I go up to skinny people in the street and say "Your so skinny you freak". I stopped bullying people in middle school. As much as i'd like to bicker with you about my morals, i'm going to see a band so i suppose i'll check this thread tomorrow.



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25 Sep 2007, 4:47 pm

Made me think of this
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5mQ2vlM7O9E[/youtube]



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25 Sep 2007, 5:34 pm

You can see some aspie traits if you watch closely. She moves as though she's feeling very awkward, she could not keep her eye focus on the people up front and made a possible social mistake her first time speaking. (So my husband believed). I agree she must be mild. The very thought of the lights so bright on me makes me shudder. Also, all those people staring, particularly if I'm in a bathing suit....yech!

BTW, to the person who doesn't mind looking at heavy-set people....THANK YOU!! ! I am voluptuous at 6' and 210 lbs. :) I wish we lived in the time of the classical artists when curves and meat were in...not skin and bones!! !

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25 Sep 2007, 8:01 pm

There is already a thread on this, you might find it interesting.

http://www.wrongplanet.net/modules.php? ... ic&t=43983