Can Aspies Be A Part of the "In-Crowd"

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Zarathustra
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08 Oct 2007, 2:22 pm

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I am definitely not a "hipster"...but i am at least somewhat recognised in my city's underground arts/music scene...because I have been involved in it for so many years and help run a venue and whatnot....I don't know if that would make me sort of any "in" crowd...but uh...that is the closest equivocal thing I can think of.
From your symptomology, DR Zarathustra D/X's you're part of the in-crowd.


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08 Oct 2007, 2:22 pm

poopylungstuffing wrote:
I am definitely not a "hipster"...but i am at least somewhat recognised in my city's underground arts/music scene...because I have been involved in it for so many years and help run a venue and whatnot....I don't know if that would make me sort of any "in" crowd...but uh...that is the closest equivocal thing I can think of.
From your symptomology, DR Zarathustra D/X's you're part of the in-crowd.


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08 Oct 2007, 2:28 pm

Oh no!! Say it ain't so!! :cry:

I know other serious AS types who by the same symptoms are also part of the same "in" crowd...(we tend to be an eccentric bunch)

So I guess that would make it possible....

Oh yeah...and when I was in High School I was sorta a member of a all-inclusive, non-conformist, everybody welcome no matter how you look, act, smell, etc....clique...

We all sat together at lunch...it was fun and diverse gaggle of kids.

I guess it was more of an anti-clique :)

Many of us were the sort who would under other circumstances would eat lunch alone...



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08 Oct 2007, 3:20 pm

ZARATHUSTRA wrote:
...We are leaders, not followers. We are the future. Be your unaffected self and your in-crowd will form around you.


You know... there's some truth to this. It strikes me as odd, when a manager talked to us as a group and asked for someone to volunteer to be team leader, most eyes seemed to look to me to provide that leadership. Of course, my head would be reeling with, "Hey! You're the people who keep treating me like an outcast, now you want to make me your leader????" ...but that's happened more than once, at more than one workplace.

....interesting.



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08 Oct 2007, 4:18 pm

I'm here to rebel against the in-crowd and stand out for my 'own' strong ways. :P


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08 Oct 2007, 4:21 pm

Nah, I gave up on that a long time ago. I felt like s**t when I tried only to find out I was still getting the same treatment.