Anyone become more reclusive because of aspergers overtime?

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I don't need constant social contact but I make sure I don't go too long without seeing my friends because I have had several reclusive periods in my life.

There is a difference from 'me' time and reclusive. Where that difference lies is up to the individual.

(My youngest is now off the computer and retired for the night.)

This is an observation that is familiar to many NT persons who are aging. For those of us living with AS this may be more of a gradual process over time, as many of us have been reclusive since childhood. I have never been social. I avoid parties and other social gatherings if invited, which was exeedingly rare. I don't like disruptions in routines. Holidays, including Christmas, also affect me this way. I went to one work Christmas party in my life and found it so boring and tiring. My husband enjoyed it because he could eat as much as he wanted. I like to also avoid other large gatherings such as a place of worship because there were too many changes with routines and staff. Like many aspies I would much rather be left alone with my children, books and computer. Changes should be subtle and minimal.

I used to be more social...but 99% of the time it was normally to please others, work associates, friends, my husband when I was married...etc. Going out to parties has never really been something I have enjoyed, I did it to keep peace. I normally found a quiet corner and waited until it was safe to make my exit.

Now I basically do what I want...not what's wanted "of me". I'm a hermit...but a very un-stressed one.

Uh........

I'd say that's a no.

I've always been the sociable type. I like hanging out with people. But I don't mind staying in with the guys at my house and just watching a movie and chilling, college is college.

same is with real life.