hilarythebaker wrote:
Are there any folks with Asperger's here who LOVE to talk? I like nothing more than to be with a friend and have a lovely conversation. I am aware that it is usually quite difficult for Asperger's people to be verbal, and that to be a fluent talker is quite a feat. I would talk to people all day long if they let me. In fact, Mother sometimes calls me "Constant Comment."
My biggest problems with talking is that I interrupt on occassion (usually when I'm with my family) and as I am a bit hard of hearing (10%-15% loss), I have a hard time modulating my voice. It irritates my father especially, and he's forever saying, "lower your voice, the other people can hear you," and this can get to be very embarassing. It really annoys my brother when we're with Daddy and I get loud and Daddy keeps saying, "lower your voice."
I remember seeing a neurologist in Dallas, Texas and she told me I was one of the most verbal people with Asperger's that she ever saw. She was thrilled that I actually enjoyed talking!
Also when people tell me to lower my voice, I often literally start over with what I was trying to say. "You don't have to repeat it, just lower your voice and continue," is something I frequently hear from my parents.
So are there any Aspies here who are chatterboxes?
I too find myself talkative at times, but only when given opportunity, and only with those I know real well, those I don't know, I do not say anything, cause I usually don't know them, and don't know what to talk about to new ones, or ones I'm just getting to know. People just assume I am either shy or don't want to talk to them=unfriendly. I often do find myself interrupting ongoing conversations when I'm with a group of people mostly from my church, and I don't know when they've finished talking. I do at times get told by others including my own family members that I talk too loudly, and to keep my voice down when in public places like restaurants.
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