duncansbass wrote:
I have a lifelong fascination with music, could pat rythyms as a child in time on my thighs (in time meaning musically in time, not random) and can as an adult pick up any instrument and get music out of it. I even got a cheap clarinet from eBay and can play. I have never had a music lesson.
The soundtrack in my head is a constant, and I hear music where there is none--I hear random sounds around me and hear them as melody--not as actual music, but the possibility of it. That may not make much sense, but it's difficult to explain.
I once was overheard patting as a child by some guy who asked my mom how many drum lessons I'd had, because I was patting alternately in 3/4, 4/4, and 7/8 time, the last being especially difficult. She replied I'd had no music lessons. I was 8. All I was doing was imitating the rythyms in songs I'd heard, but I hear them in more detail than most people.
Is your son like that at all? Or is it something else?
I believe he's thinking about music all the time and, honestly, I feel dense for not realizing it sooner. I have to get him an instrument. He keeps the songs in his head because there's a disconnect with the way he hears it and the way he vocalizes it. For example, he'll try to vocalize an instrumental song (like the theme to Superman) and he'll say that it's right in his head, but wrong the way he's saying it. He likes songs with lyrics, but seems to prefer instrumentals.
It sounds like he is hearing subtle resonances in the music that most people don't detect. I hear subtleties in songs that others don't seem to hear. Now that I am older I know they are interactions between pitches and tones that it takes a very sharp ear to detect. I would encourage the music as much as you can, and maybe expose him to different instruments.