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Reyairia
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29 Feb 2008, 6:57 am

Droopy wrote:

I read in some book about aspies that female aspies prefer guy freinds over girls. The reason being is because women/girls are more emotionally demanding then guys. Another thing it said is women, apparently aspie or not, are more boring to a female aspie. I know that's true for me. I'm a woman and I get along better with men than women. My problem is men usually think I'm after them which is very frustrating so I don't try to be friends with anyone. I have one female friend but she's got a lot of aspie traits, we've concluded that's why we get along so good.

It's true. I have stronger friendships with guys than girls, plus I've been told I talk and behave very guyish.
Guys are a little easier to understand than girls.

zen_mistress
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29 Feb 2008, 7:09 am

I also find guys easier to understand. And they seem to have more freedom in their behaviours than females.

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29 Feb 2008, 8:59 am

Aspie female . . . not quite like talking to an NT female, and all for the better.

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livinglearning
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29 Feb 2008, 6:06 pm

Droopy wrote:

I agree with everything you said! I usually prefer hanging out with guys, they don't get on my nerves as much, but it's frustrating when they think I'm interested in more than friendship.

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29 Feb 2008, 7:53 pm

You can talk to me too. I might be a little different from the others here though; I feel out of place here sometimes.

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Nikky91
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29 Feb 2008, 8:00 pm

You can feel free to talk to me

juliekitty
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29 Feb 2008, 8:18 pm

Me too. I'm blunt and concise, though.

MusicMaker1
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29 Feb 2008, 9:56 pm

I'm a female whose often felt the way you described... You can feel free to send me an email.

Ana54
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29 Feb 2008, 10:16 pm

adverb wrote:

You can talk to me too.

I might be a little different from the others here though; I feel out of place here sometimes.

That was me. Didn't realize he was logged in; oops. I thought I was logged in as me.

But I'm sure Adverb will talk to you about female Aspies too.

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01 Mar 2008, 8:48 am

Yep . As above. I can't promise to be helpful, but I do try.

9CatMom
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01 Mar 2008, 10:00 am

You can talk to me, too.

Flow
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06 Mar 2008, 6:38 pm

I'm female, you can pm me.

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MissConstrue
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06 Mar 2008, 6:43 pm

zen_mistress wrote:

I also find guys easier to understand. And they seem to have more freedom in their behaviours than females.

I'm just curious as to why guys have more freedom in their behaviors than females.

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06 Mar 2008, 6:47 pm

ebec11 wrote:

Sometimes I just want somebody who understands Aspergers but isn't a guy (I have trust issues with the male species). Is there any females Aspies out here I can talk to? It's very lonely sometimes

I also just wanted to add that you can also email me. I got a couple friends that are girls. We usually just joke around. Sometimes we send eachother funny stuff from youtube in case you're a little hesitant to talk.

oscuria
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06 Mar 2008, 6:56 pm

SEXIST!

Anyways, In my prejudice of women, I would think an aspie female would be far more difficult to communicate with.

M: "Hi. How are..."

F: "ARGH! I JUST WANT TO BE ALONE! "

M: "Uhh, sorry? "

F: " :evil: "

M: " :scratch: "

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06 Mar 2008, 7:05 pm

Awww, Oscuria, don't take it too personal. I'm sure there's aspie men out there that feel more comfortable talking to aspie men.

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