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02 May 2008, 5:00 pm

Irulan wrote:
Thanks to this stereotype, having read typical descriptions of AS for the first time, I chased away my suspitions I could have it for the next three years - I treated them seriously, believing that EVERYBODY having it is a counterpart of Data from TNG in human body - otherwise ASers wouldn't be described this way.


You and I had a very similar experience. My online friend who has AS half-teased that I might have AS, but I read it and thought that it wasn't possible because I was emotional and didn't like math. I spent months talking with her about feeling like everyone else got guides on how to get through life and how much fun it is to fiddle with pens, and I finally began to wonder. It all fell into place when I realized what stimming is and that I've been rocking my enitre life. If it hadn't been for that stereotype, I might have been here almost a year ago.


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02 May 2008, 5:09 pm

Ah stereotypes.

I have 2 sons with Asperger's.

Apparently they are not anxious because they're not throwing chairs across the room or headbutting the walls.

Yes, I've had 2 teachers tell me that they are very experienced with Aspie students, and because my sons don't throw chairs across the room or headbutt the wall, they're NOT anxious.

:x Grrrrrr.

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02 May 2008, 5:12 pm

According to the school i lack assertive behaviors, and i need "special encouragement" to participate. :lol:


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02 May 2008, 5:14 pm

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Everyone says im emotioless, i like train timetables, and math. (I H8 math)

Hey, timetables are cool! Well, bus ones are 8) :wink: :lol:


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02 May 2008, 5:56 pm

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Kris94 wrote:
Everyone says im emotioless, i like train timetables, and math. (I H8 math)

Hey, timetables are cool! Well, bus ones are 8) :wink: :lol:


Only when you've just missed the last one.


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02 May 2008, 6:00 pm

Hodor wrote:
Greyhound wrote:
Kris94 wrote:
Everyone says im emotioless, i like train timetables, and math. (I H8 math)

Hey, timetables are cool! Well, bus ones are 8) :wink: :lol:


Only when you've just missed the last one.

:lol:

Actually, timetables aren't that great, but fleetlists are :)


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03 May 2008, 1:25 am

I also hate stereotypes. We're all different. Hey lets stereotype NTs. They all like sports, they all watch the games, they all do chit chat to strangers, they all care about other people and none of them are good with math or puzzles, none of them can smell very well, none of them are bothered by fluorescent lights, all of them get married, all of them have kids, all of them have jobs, none of them have special interests, none of them stim. See they are all different and they have their own personality and interests. They are all good at different things, just like us.



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03 May 2008, 1:33 am

I like stereotypes. They help me know in advance of what I'm to expect.