Ana54 wrote:
of things?
When I was against abortion, my mother was really mad at me for being against it unconditionally, saying I lacked empathy and didn't understand the big picture.

i don't know that isn't necessarily an AS thing.
she might have meant you didn't have empathy for people who get abortions. which i think is true for a lot of anti-abortion folks. (before i get jumped on. i said 'lots'. not 'all'. view below statement before calling me immoral, baby killer, what have you.)
i would never get one, but i'm not about to say the woman next to me can't, just becasue i can't understand where she is coming from. *shrugs*