Shelby wrote:
I think there are a few people who didn't read my post properly - it was my first day of school when I pushed Tammy. I WAS FOUR YEARS OLD. So those people who said I was mean - I WAS FOUR AND AUTISTIC FOR CHRISTS SAKE *shakes head* And yes of course I know Tammy is short for Tamara but I had never heard the name before so it was weird. I think I also pointed out I like the name now. I work with a Tamara wo will punch you if you call her Tammy and her daughter must be called Elizabeth not Liz or Lizzie.
Detren: I agree with you completely that names should be considered and should have a meaning. The names I hate the most are trendified names that are given to be cool and nothing else. I saw an article that brand names are becoming popular, names like Chanel (There was a child named Chanel No 5 I'm not kidding) and Prada, and all kinds of car names. I can't stand the Bayden/Kayden/Zayden trend (my cousin is Zayden). I don't much like the name Jet - when John Travolta named his son Jet, it had a great meaning, he loves planes and JET is his initials. But then Jet became a trendy name and you see them everywhere.
I don't mind foreign names so much, usually they sound exotic but there are some names that sound weird in English. I know a kid called Mahnoor (manure) and her sister is Laiba (people tend to pronounce it Labia). I'm trying to convince her mom to change them to Nora and Laila!
FYI, I was being sarcastic. I tend to forget my tone doesn't come through so well in written word... but had I been delivering my message in person, it would have been in over-the-top fashion.

So, you have my apologies for any miscommunication there.
Personally, I still have problems with people with the same name as those who have mistreated me in the past. It's totally irrational, and I try to ignore it... but I think the name triggers off those unpleasant memories. "John", "Chad", and "Michelle" are the worst. I really have to struggle not to outright ignore people with those names. And it is VERY hard for me to take seriously anyone with a name like "Barbie" or "Biff".
I was serious about leaving a flaming bag of dookie on the front porch of people who name their kids rediculous names though!