Can you detect when a person is lying?

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Keith
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15 Sep 2008, 1:57 am

Nowadays my paranoia works for me, I seek some proof, treat many things as jokes. I am usually good enough with words to cover up my lack of believing them



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15 Sep 2008, 2:08 am

I have a tendency to be suckered--- unless it is REAL obvious.
However, sometimes someone will try and lie to me when I already know the actual truth--- this makes me angry, since I know they are lying then.



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15 Sep 2008, 9:45 am

play dumb then bash them with a brick in thier sleep



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20 Oct 2014, 11:37 am

:) I can tell if someone is lying or being fake that's one of my gifts I can tell if another aspie is trying to manipulate me.



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20 Oct 2014, 12:16 pm

I'm a person who always has doubts about people its tiring, I'm always suspicious and wary of everyone unless I get to know them, there are times I remember when I could know when the person is lying to me.



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20 Oct 2014, 12:24 pm

I can usually tell if a person is lying. But I often end up doubting myself and believing them anyway, especially if they are very persuasive.

I can tell when a person is lying to themselves.

However facetiousness often goes right past me. I tend to take it literally.



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20 Oct 2014, 12:32 pm

Since it's very difficult for me to tell, I just assume that pretty much everyone is lying (or at least embellishing the truth) until I find out otherwise. Saves a lot of hassle and disappointment that way.



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20 Oct 2014, 12:43 pm

In many circumstances, I'm quite the BS detector. 8) Unfortunately, there's just so much of it to detect! Ugh.


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20 Oct 2014, 12:49 pm

I can't, and I can't detect sarcasm either.



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20 Oct 2014, 12:58 pm

I am terrible at telling lies myself and always look guilty when I try. I am even worse at telling when someone else is lying. When I am lied to it seems to create a "that does not compute" cognitive dissonance in me leaving me utterly confused.


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