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28 Jan 2009, 2:55 am

Xelebes wrote:

If she's attractive, keep a good 6 metre (20 foot) distance between the two of us.

That's the same strategy I use. :lol:

It hasn't been very effective though. :scratch:

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28 Jan 2009, 3:05 am

I act like a right tit, why do you ask?

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28 Jan 2009, 3:07 am

I wouldn't do anything. I find a lot of women attractive, but I don't find many of them personally attractive. You know, more than just the looks. Sure, you have to actually meet and get to know them to judge that, but looks alone just aren't enough for me to approach somebody.

I tried getting to know two females I had met at my college. It didn't go very well. One of them didn't want to hang out at all, so I stopped contacting her. The other made excuses to miss scheduled meet up times to do things, and only talked to me when she had questions about homework or something.

So, overall.. I think I should just go back to what I was doing before: waiting to find somebody interesting rather than just attractive.

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28 Jan 2009, 3:57 am

bucephalus wrote:

pensieve wrote:

Warsie wrote:

pensieve wrote:

No wonder it's so hard to get the nice guys.

you're female...APPROACH HIM..

I'm shy.

Once a friend tried to hook me up with this shy guy and we both just sat there, looking at our shoes. I tried to come up with things to say but my friend pulled me away from him.

i find that shy people gell best with the outgoing. both parties get to do what they're most comfortable with - listening and speaking, respectively

And the outgoing person always makes the first moves. But they also seem to be the kind that only want one thing, and aren't interested in dating.
I did date one once and he was just exhausting.

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28 Jan 2009, 4:37 am

northern_light_girl wrote:

Let's say you see a girl at a party(or in class, at the gym etc -so you get the chance to see her a couple times) ..you don't know her very well but are attracted to her.

I would look at her all the time, exept when she's looking at me. ^^ If she happens to catch my gaze, I've developed a good way to break it so that she might think that it was a coincidence that I was looking at her.

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Assume she's very social and confident (life of the party type). Also, most importantly, let's say she has absolutely NO INTEREST in your hobbies/focused interests (but you are attracted to her).

Same as befor.

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How do you act around her? Do you think you remain self-absorbed or are making an effort to reach her?

I'd act around her like I act around all "normals", I'd hide the things that makes me weak (feelings). I would never trust her if she didn't show any other side that the party girl.

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Do you ignore her, look at her, attempt to attract her attention, smile at her..what? How do you think you usually signal/show your interest for a girl(consciously or not)????? PLEASE tell me

I would help her if she asked me, mayby try to talk to her. But mostly look and dream.

It's a big difference if I wouldn't be really interested in her, then I might ask her out. (And seriusly freak out if she said yes.) :lol:

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28 Jan 2009, 6:27 am

ignore her, so that i remain unrejected.
basicly i remove the potential for more rejection in my life and avoid people who i feel are likely to do that to me
it takes me an incredibly long time to trust someone.

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28 Jan 2009, 9:57 am

Well, I try to completely ignore her. It's not the best strategy, but I know some women hate to be ignored, and that sometimes make her do the first move.
If you really pays her attention, and act like a pavlov dog, she will ignore you, or start the hard to get game. And I hate games, I'm the straight forward type.

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28 Jan 2009, 10:02 am

like a fool

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28 Jan 2009, 11:27 am

If she's one of those "hot and knows it" types, I just stay away from her, because I never had a good experience interacting with a girl like that. But if she's more plain-looking, I usually approach her and start a conversation; I've had enough life experiences to be able to do that without much trouble.

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28 Jan 2009, 1:06 pm

pensieve wrote:

And the outgoing person always makes the first moves. But they also seem to be the kind that only want one thing, and aren't interested in dating.
I did date one once and he was just exhausting.

uh.....did I just hear that correct? "he was just exhausting" after what you typed above?

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28 Jan 2009, 1:16 pm

pensieve wrote:

And the outgoing person always makes the first moves. But they also seem to be the kind that only want one thing, and aren't interested in dating.
I did date one once and he was just exhausting.

I tend to like exhausting guys because I can be an exhausting girl and I love the flattery.

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