Sora wrote:
It would also be hell for some of us who're on the spectrum.
It would take ages to find someone who'd not ramble on about their interest, not be asocial, not disregard personal boundaries, not freak out about loud noise, not be introverted, not be one-sided in their conversation style...
I'm only friends with people who're not any like that and I have a lot of these traits myself. I really like them too. Couldn't imagine to be very happy in a world where a introverted asocial personality style would rule.
On a side note, what about all those people with other disabilities? I'd be most curious to know all about what they think about a world ruled by the ASD neurology.
I agree. The world wouldn't necessarily be any easier if everyone was exactly like me. I'm introverted and I sometimes feel even more awkward when I'm around other people who are as introverted as I am. The fact is a lot of NT's are better at getting the conversation going than I am and I'm grateful for that.
That said I don't think introverted means asocial. That's an inaccurate perception. I like socializing, it's just that small talk bores me and I'm not good at it - trying to do it leaves me both exhausted and dissatisfied. If people are boring me and I'm not naturally feeling particularly lively it's extremely hard to fake an interest in order to appear more social. I'm not purposely trying to be a stick in the mud even if people think that. It's frustrating. I'd
much rather talk about real issues, either emotional or intellectual topics. Once I get interested I start feeling more energy and it becomes easier to contribute and relate.