Manual transmission topic
An individual guide would hve been good, I agree. There are actually some helpful guides in the Books section on the black line of the Website here at WP.
I just googled Life Instruction Manual, for a lark and found Life's Missing Instruction Manual: The Guide You Should Have Been Given At Birth by Joe Vitale (life in Italian, haha.) This might be worth a look. I order books through my local library so I do not have to pay for them. 
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