Friday Night Rants: The Aspie "Agenda"

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28 Feb 2009, 2:36 pm

good on you.

i was really interested in the point you raised about people maintaining it is "cool" to have AS.
i am dx'ed by AS specialists. And sometimes i query how many people are actually AS who post on WP. it seems like it is a "cool" forum to post on - or that some people decide they want to be AS or might be AS because they are not social. there's a lot more to it than that.
And it is not fun stimming in public or having to flinch and stretch your shoulders with people wondering "why the heck does she ALWAYS twist around like a tourettes girl?"

not everyone stims a lot. that is not my point.

My point is that it is a complex and often sad diagnosis that separates me from being able to connect with others easily and fully. it's not a flavour of the month and it is part of me. i cannot just decide NOT TO BE, one day.

it's not a case of them being dx'ed or not. it is just like it is a cool thing to have. for the record, there are great things about having AS. but the truth is my life has been HELL. amazing. But HELL.



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28 Feb 2009, 2:46 pm

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I thought Friday night rants was cancelled? I'm glad it's back though.


i jsut couldnt keep myself away!


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28 Feb 2009, 3:28 pm

Lol this is true. I say I'm proud to be aspie- but in the same way that people are proud to be Estonian or proud to support Man U football club. It's just pride in who you are as a person, and I think that it's OK. But when it gets to "I'm proud to be aspie I am superior Gid I hate NTs so much' it gets offensive. What's really funny is that the perpetrators would all be up in arms if someone said that same about aspies.

As for a separate country- I can see why some people would want one- but I agree with you that it's pointless and doesn't help integration. Ghettoisation only segregates groups more, so in that aspect it's bad.



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28 Feb 2009, 3:33 pm

millie wrote:
good on you.

i was really interested in the point you raised about people maintaining it is "cool" to have AS.
i am dx'ed by AS specialists. And sometimes i query how many people are actually AS who post on WP. it seems like it is a "cool" forum to post on - or that some people decide they want to be AS or might be AS because they are not social. there's a lot more to it than that.
And it is not fun stimming in public or having to flinch and stretch your shoulders with people wondering "why the heck does she ALWAYS twist around like a tourettes girl?"

not everyone stims a lot. that is not my point.

My point is that it is a complex and often sad diagnosis that separates me from being able to connect with others easily and fully. it's not a flavour of the month and it is part of me. i cannot just decide NOT TO BE, one day.

it's not a case of them being dx'ed or not. it is just like it is a cool thing to have. for the record, there are great things about having AS. but the truth is my life has been HELL. amazing. But HELL.


I do agree with what your saying. I have noticed it's becoming cool, but they don't realise that it isn't cool to have, it's actually quite annoying


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28 Feb 2009, 3:56 pm

DiabloDave363 wrote:
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*I have nothing against people who label themselves "aspergians", just the ones who want to split off in an all autsitic society.
*I do not have anything against the people who are "proud" to be on the spectrume; this is only against the radical ones.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h3NFGCphD6E[/youtube]


is this really how young people talk now? i fear for our future :hmph:

'tits', indeed.

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28 Feb 2009, 3:58 pm

starvingartist wrote:
DiabloDave363 wrote:
NOTE:
*I have nothing against people who label themselves "aspergians", just the ones who want to split off in an all autsitic society.
*I do not have anything against the people who are "proud" to be on the spectrume; this is only against the radical ones.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h3NFGCphD6E[/youtube]


is this really how young people talk now? i fear for our future :hmph:

'tits', indeed.

:roll:


i dont understnad? wat do u mean, communicating through videos?


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28 Feb 2009, 4:03 pm

DiabloDave363 wrote:
starvingartist wrote:
DiabloDave363 wrote:
NOTE:
*I have nothing against people who label themselves "aspergians", just the ones who want to split off in an all autsitic society.
*I do not have anything against the people who are "proud" to be on the spectrume; this is only against the radical ones.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h3NFGCphD6E[/youtube]


is this really how young people talk now? i fear for our future :hmph:

'tits', indeed.

:roll:


i dont understnad? wat do u mean, communicating through videos?


i mean expecting people to take what you're saying seriously and then signing off with a catch-phrase like 'tits'.



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28 Feb 2009, 4:05 pm

starvingartist wrote:
DiabloDave363 wrote:
starvingartist wrote:
DiabloDave363 wrote:
NOTE:
*I have nothing against people who label themselves "aspergians", just the ones who want to split off in an all autsitic society.
*I do not have anything against the people who are "proud" to be on the spectrume; this is only against the radical ones.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h3NFGCphD6E[/youtube]


is this really how young people talk now? i fear for our future :hmph:

'tits', indeed.

:roll:


i dont understnad? wat do u mean, communicating through videos?


i mean expecting people to take what you're saying seriously and then signing off with a catch-phrase like 'tits'.


its not the end of the world cause i say tits. everyone who knows me on utube expects that from me. just get over it


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28 Feb 2009, 5:49 pm

chuckle chuckle.

i fear for a future where i am unable to say tits when i want to.

the way young kids speak is somewhat different to the way i speak - although i have lots of different modes of speaking as part of my AS presentation.

i rejoice in young kids out there who have AS and are also communicating their views and how it is for them from their perspective and their sub-cultural vantage point.

GO THE TITS. :lol:
(no wars please. just an opinion.) :lol:



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28 Feb 2009, 6:48 pm

millie wrote:
chuckle chuckle.

i fear for a future where i am unable to say tits when i want to.

the way young kids speak is somewhat different to the way i speak - although i have lots of different modes of speaking as part of my AS presentation.

i rejoice in young kids out there who have AS and are also communicating their views and how it is for them from their perspective and their sub-cultural vantage point.

GO THE TITS. :lol:
(no wars please. just an opinion.) :lol:


im highly doubtful people will start wars over saying the word "tits"


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28 Feb 2009, 7:25 pm

Tit wars would be epic, though.

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28 Feb 2009, 11:12 pm

Wars have been fought for stupider reasons than tits. It wouldn't surprise me one bit if a war did break out. In either case, good to see Friday Night Rants is back.

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28 Feb 2009, 11:39 pm

Well, I could do without the cussing, but diablodave is reasonable, states his case well, and has an interesting and entertaining way of stating his case.

As for the freedom to cuss? MOST of it means NOTHING anyway, and some words have lost various meanings, etc... As for that TITS signoff? Maybe it is an akronym or something.



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28 Feb 2009, 11:41 pm

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Is there a transcript of the video?

sorry no. should start writing em out tho


You DID at least write bullet points, to do the video, right?



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28 Feb 2009, 11:43 pm

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Well, I could do without the cussing, but diablodave is reasonable, states his case well, and has an interesting and entertaining way of stating his case.

As for the freedom to cuss? MOST of it means NOTHING anyway, and some words have lost various meanings, etc... As for that TITS signoff? Maybe it is an akronym or something.


ye, f**k f**k s**t s**t. it doesnt matter in the first place. tits is a shout out to the people i know. where i go to school, tits means many things


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28 Feb 2009, 11:45 pm

2ukenkerl wrote:
DiabloDave363 wrote:
AgentPalpatine wrote:
Is there a transcript of the video?

sorry no. should start writing em out tho


You DID at least write bullet points, to do the video, right?

no


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