^ No.
Your cultures' context is strange IMO.

It's not just you.
From where I came from, it is acknowledged both as a medical condition AND a state of being.
And both can be permanent or temporary -- identification is a choice.
There is no denial it is a disability nor it denies the benefit of being one.
In your culture --
autistic communities based in similar cultures -- it is polarized.
As much as you're baffled at people who thought autism is not a disability -- and those who don't would deny it...
I'm just as baffled why both groups do not understand that it is not a contradiction.
You speak of the medical and the social models.
But perhaps that's where the dichotomy lies within your's and other's of how it is taken into context -- the lack collective social concept to apply both at the same time and space.
This is not a disagreement to your view.
This is an acknowledgement that the polarization from where you came from exists.
You are right in what you say. The reason I don't personally like the word disorder for ASD is because I, personally, truly believe that we are the original design. That is my personal conviction. I believe that neurotypicality was a divergence of Autism. But that's just what I believe and I will not change my belief in that. I respect that other people don't believe that and that is their right.