Hi Diva!
Your points are well taken. I agree with most, if not all, of what you've pointed out. This struck me as especially funny
autism_diva wrote:
I mean, if you can think of a way to deliver that message in a more acceptable way, let me know what it is.
because I have no idea how one can tell parents that chelation and the like is quackery, not to mention, dangerous. Over the course of the years, I am finding that I can be cordial, but certainly not close, with parents who choose iffy autism treatments. And as I said, being cordial involves not speaking of certain things. I have a mom friend here in RL who does the whole DAN thing and it just breaks my heart. She knows that DAN is not for me, but were I to thoroughly tell her how I feel, things between us would be very tense. My MIL asks me how autism can be such a contentious subject. "Oh you don't know the half of it!" I usually reply.
I am grateful for you and for others who choose to speak plainly and loudly. I have neither the guts nor the knowledge to say much about DANs and such. I like to think that in my own quiet way, I am doing my part and focusing on helping parents understand the positive aspects of autism. Guiding them to appreciate their precious child just as he is.