johnnydangerous wrote:
I am a handsome, in shape man who is 33 years old. But because I have aspergers, I am alone.
But if you're a pretty woman with aspergers, it just doesn't matter. In fact men might even like you MORE because of it.
I find this to be so unfair, and so cruel, to the men who have aspergers. There is an old aspie joke that says "whats the difference between an aspie male and an aspie female? answer: the aspie female is married".
How do you cope with the fact that you'll be alone the rest of your life? I'm having a hard time accepting. EVERY WOMAN treats me like I'm the plauge' and I'm so sick of it. They approach me because of my looks, flirt a little, then realize "oh hes different, I dont like him anymore".
I dont even try anymore. Its such a losing battle, and in the end it just brings more and more pain.
You read these websites on how to pick up girls. You have to be the fuggin' "alpha male" b.s. because God forbid you are like me, women just wont like you.
I really have contemplated suicide over this. I'm sick of being alone. Here I am a handsome in shape caring guy, and Im all alone. This world is so fugged up. I dont even want to live anymore. I cant wait for death.
First off, don't go after the NT girls. Find yourself a good Aspie girl who has similar special interests.
I met my current hubby online on a forum focused on Ancient History back in '98. He moved here 6 months later, and we married in spring of '99. We've been together ever since. He tends to focus on military history, my interest is in social/technological history (did you know that ancient Romans didn't use cats for vermin control? They used ferrets).
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Aspie score: 142/200 NT score: 64/200
AQ Score: 42
BAP: 109 aloof, 94 rigid and 85 pragmatic