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CapedOwl
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Yesterday, 4:48 am

kadanuumuu wrote:
Maestro CapedOwl,
Thank you for your kind words and I often find myself reading your posts with equal interest and fervor.
great minds think alike,... and so do ours apparently ... ;)
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Congrats on your mantra; I fully understand what you mean. The fact that we have to stay in our row-boat and can never just 'ride the waves' as you stated is another great analogism.
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Thank you as well for bringing up 'anchoring', this is a handy technique that I try to use as well. And also a demonstration of why I am grateful; the fact that we can do/apply this.
We walk the same path under the same sky, yet the stars we see are different — and in that difference lies the quiet miracle of being human together.

Thanks so much for the compliments, and it's nice to connect! Yes, I agree there's affinity here. I find your posts very enjoyable, thoughtful and insightful. (I've noticed you also do a great job of being an embassador to the new users arriving. Much appreciated!)


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Yesterday, 10:14 am

CapedOwl wrote:
Thanks so much for the compliments, and it's nice to connect! Yes, I agree there's affinity here. I find your posts very enjoyable, thoughtful and insightful. (I've noticed you also do a great job of being an embassador to the new users arriving. Much appreciated!)


Same for you maestro, thank you for helping and sharing your experiences.



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Yesterday, 10:42 am

All of us have differing strengths and weaknesses. I used to be a serious ultramarathon runner whos' hoping to get back into it. I didn't fit in in team sports and I took to drinking with colleagues when I was about 20, as it helped me fit in. But then I discovered running and hiking, two sports that suited me perfectly and made me happy.

I also took to Scrabble, and just returned from a highly successful day back to back double tournament, securing a good 4th position in both. I love learning weird non everyday words, and that helps a lot.

I would encourage all of us to find where we fit in and are good at, and where we can find acceptance. I have learned so much since my late diagnosis at 45!


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Yesterday, 10:47 am

I hate that I've been in denial of it for so long, thinking it was my enemy


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Today, 2:57 am

id say being misunderstood leading to systematic excusion and basically leavign me isolated (isolation being my defining i believe feature of my autism over social deficit, which i see myself as more extroverted and NT's seem asocial to me)