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16 May 2011, 5:48 am

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Okay, so please enlighten all of us with your vast and superior knowledge. What is it that you are doing that is affecting such change and how do we get involved? I would like to consider all options at this point. How do you propose my skills could best be used?


Seeing as you were only diagnosed last year and you are already well on your way to presenting yourself as some kind of ambassador for Autism with special expertise, and hustling for "Autism Speaks", I think you are already in the best possible place from everybody's point iof view.

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About your PS: I thought you were saying that they do not and will not hire or listen to Autistics? Which one is it? Confused....


Er...no...they don't have to listen to us, hire us, respect us or care about us to need us for credibility - and hustle us, do they?



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16 May 2011, 6:19 am

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My mistake there, thanks for taking the time to continue the conversation, though, anyway.

I think that some people truly want to see changes in autism speaks to benefit more people on the spectrum and that is why they are making the effort. There are many that hold a complaint that Autism Speaks won't hire any Autistic people; what you are suggesting is that it is not worth the time of autistic people to participate in the organization.


Absolutely, "Autism Speaks" needs us because the biggest remaining market gaps to expand into are low maintenance adult care/support with a very seductive low cost/high yield potential. In the area of low maintenance controlled accomodation with inhouse supported employment that is the next best thing to a licence to print money in a property slump, as long as you don't have any problems with HFs spend the rest of their lives in heavily disguised open prisons, all you have to do is get them in there, and the fear of change would keep most of them trapped in Guatanamo Bay once they became acclimatised.

On the other hand, despite "Autism Speaks" best efforts, true awareness of Autistics as equal human being IS growing, and they are beginning to lose credibility with the general public because of the absence of Autistic endorsement and growing public opposition.

So they try to find ways to hustle a few token, high profile Autistics on Board to change that and give credence as the move into the lucrative area of "supported independent living" for Adults.

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Is it possible that the reason that more autistic people haven't worked in the organization up until now, is simply because they weren't interested? The organization certainly can't make anyone with autism work for them.


A lot of Autistic people would not work for or with "Autism Speaks" as a matter of principle whatever they offered...but that's a red herring because the fact that "Autism Speaks" has never hired Autistics is not the problem, it is just one, tiny symptrom, among many of the problem.

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People here were vocally upset when the owner of this site gained a partnership with the organization that allowed more awareness of higher functioning Autism. People were complaining that there was no autistic input in the organization; he made the improvement, yet people still expressed dissatisfaction that it was an action against autistic needs rather than for them.


I don't think it is very good manners to discuss Alex on his own board, so I am not going to, but he lost a great deal of credibility by his affiliation with "Autism Speaks". I only posted here because I had to make a widespread request for information for someone else, then I saw this thread. But usually I would not post or read here at all since that "partnership" was formed.

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Maybe I'm too logical, but it doesn't make a whole lot of logical sense to me to oppose someone wanting to work with Autism Speaks, yet complain that they hire no one with Autism.


Doesn't make any sense to me either, which is why that has never been my viewpoint. I oppose "Autism Speaks" because they damage our potential, and obstruct our access to the resources they monopolise by exploiting us as a cash crop for profit and gain.

The only "positive change" I would like to see in "Autism Speaks" is that they change direction, leave us alone, and go save the rain forests - but, on the other hand, what have the rain forests ever done to hurt me?



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16 May 2011, 6:30 am

Zeraeph wrote:
kfisherx wrote:
Okay, so please enlighten all of us with your vast and superior knowledge. What is it that you are doing that is affecting such change and how do we get involved? I would like to consider all options at this point. How do you propose my skills could best be used?


Seeing as you were only diagnosed last year and you are already well on your way to presenting yourself as some kind of ambassador for Autism with special expertise, and hustling for "Autism Speaks", I think you are already in the best possible place from everybody's point iof view.

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About your PS: I thought you were saying that they do not and will not hire or listen to Autistics? Which one is it? Confused....


Er...no...they don't have to listen to us, hire us, respect us or care about us to need us for credibility - and hustle us, do they?


So yet again, when directly asked for a substantive contribution to this conversation you respond with snarkiness. WTF? Yet you expect to be taken seriously?

Your statements in this thread are full of accusations, innuendo, and speculative personal opinions. All useless crap - in fact more useless to the autism community than Autism Speaks. Your responses tend towards insulting, and imply that anyone that doesn't accept your point of view has already succumbed to the Autism Speaks P.R. machine and is now permanently brainwashed. You are just as insulting to me as the worst of Autism Speaks heavy handed fund raising tactics - Autism Speaks won't listen? So what? YOU don't listen either, and worse, you won't back up what you believe with anything of substance. You think because you are on the spectrum you have an automatic "in" with others that are also autistic? Because you are autistic I have to give your ideas special consideration?

Get over yourself. It is bad enough when non-autistics refuse to understand. It is worse when someone on the spectrum is just as self righteous and uses that holy fury as a cudgel against the very people they purport to want to help.


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16 May 2011, 6:47 am

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If people truly want a change someone somewhere has to make the real effort to make it happen. That is what the owner of this site along with John Robison are doing. And it seems that other people with Autism are stepping up to the plate also.


Just as an afterthought, (apart from finding this wordform chillingly reminiscent of childhood trauma), something else is bugging me. Do you you really believe Autistic people do not (or should not) prefer do their own thinking based on their own life experience and ethics rather than defer to anyone with a high profile? It is healthy, and *normal*, for anyone to have far more faith in their own judgement, and just as many Autistics recognise and act on that as anyone else.



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16 May 2011, 6:49 am

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So yet again, when directly asked for a substantive contribution to this conversation you respond with snarkiness. WTF? Yet you expect to be taken seriously?

Your statements in this thread are full of accusations, innuendo, and speculative personal opinions. All useless crap - in fact more useless to the autism community than Autism Speaks. Your responses tend towards insulting, and imply that anyone that doesn't accept your point of view has already succumbed to the Autism Speaks P.R. machine and is now permanently brainwashed. You are just as insulting to me as the worst of Autism Speaks heavy handed fund raising tactics - Autism Speaks won't listen? So what? YOU don't listen either, and worse, you won't back up what you believe with anything of substance. You think because you are on the spectrum you have an automatic "in" with others that are also autistic? Because you are autistic I have to give your ideas special consideration?

Get over yourself. It is bad enough when non-autistics refuse to understand. It is worse when someone on the spectrum is just as self righteous and uses that holy fury as a cudgel against the very people they purport to want to help.


Oh, I see you were at Sunday Charm School...keep it up, and one day it will pay off, I promise.

(I honestly cannot think of any other answer to this "twist facts and rant" approach, but if it gets something out of his system, it doesn't bother me.)



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16 May 2011, 8:12 am

1. Autism Speaks should change it's name so that it isn't claiming to be speaking for all of us and presenting itself as if it had our support.

2. Autism Speaks should not use promotional material that includes parents saying they have considered killing themselves and their children, or endorse feelings of violence towards autistic children and should publically apologize to the autistic community for that.

3. They should stop funding genetic research that leads to pre-natal screening of autistic children

4. They should not endorse therapies for social behaviour for children who are unable to consent to it.

5. They should research the efficacy of anti-depressants and psychological therapies on autistic people, given that there is such a high rater of depression/anxiety among autistic people.

6. They should not pursue employment routes that result in people with autism doing work for which they are not paid. In cash.

7. They should advocate for autistic children to receive help to cope with things they need to cope with (like their academic schoolwork) rather than things they don't need to do (like making eye contact and being obedient.)

From what I have seen, those are the things that need to change. You seem to be doing a good job on 7. Karla, at least.



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16 May 2011, 8:40 am

Zeraeph wrote:
kfisherx wrote:
Okay, so please enlighten all of us with your vast and superior knowledge. What is it that you are doing that is affecting such change and how do we get involved? I would like to consider all options at this point. How do you propose my skills could best be used?


Seeing as you were only diagnosed last year and you are already well on your way to presenting yourself as some kind of ambassador for Autism with special expertise, and hustling for "Autism Speaks", I think you are already in the best possible place from everybody's point iof view.



Seriously? And you wonder why I think you are trolling and not taking your rants seriously? There is no way in hell that you are doing anything effective anywhere for autistic people with the way you present yourself here. Hopefully if you are a real advocate that you actually have better skills wherever else it is that you are doing whatever it is that you are doing.



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16 May 2011, 9:12 am

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wavefreak58 wrote:
So yet again, when directly asked for a substantive contribution to this conversation you respond with snarkiness. WTF? Yet you expect to be taken seriously?

Your statements in this thread are full of accusations, innuendo, and speculative personal opinions. All useless crap - in fact more useless to the autism community than Autism Speaks. Your responses tend towards insulting, and imply that anyone that doesn't accept your point of view has already succumbed to the Autism Speaks P.R. machine and is now permanently brainwashed. You are just as insulting to me as the worst of Autism Speaks heavy handed fund raising tactics - Autism Speaks won't listen? So what? YOU don't listen either, and worse, you won't back up what you believe with anything of substance. You think because you are on the spectrum you have an automatic "in" with others that are also autistic? Because you are autistic I have to give your ideas special consideration?

Get over yourself. It is bad enough when non-autistics refuse to understand. It is worse when someone on the spectrum is just as self righteous and uses that holy fury as a cudgel against the very people they purport to want to help.


Oh, I see you were at Sunday Charm School...keep it up, and one day it will pay off, I promise.

(I honestly cannot think of any other answer to this "twist facts and rant" approach, but if it gets something out of his system, it doesn't bother me.)


Further evidence of your inability to engage.


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16 May 2011, 10:14 am

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Seriously? And you wonder why I think you are trolling and not taking your rants seriously? There is no way in hell that you are doing anything effective anywhere for autistic people with the way you present yourself here. Hopefully if you are a real advocate that you actually have better skills wherever else it is that you are doing whatever it is that you are doing.


...and you obviously did *NOT* find the time to make it to Sunday Charm School.

So you define "skill" as a synonym of "Karla-pleasing"...that is an innovative idea, don't see it catching on though.

You and I are never going to have one iota of time or use for each other, so why pretend?

...and why ask the question in the first place?

...oh and I think you will find it is wavefreak58 who is wondering why *I* think he is trolling and not taking his rants seriously...I haven't noticed you doing that at all...but then I really don't pay much attention to your attitude to me...so I might have missed it?



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16 May 2011, 10:17 am

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kfisherx wrote:

Seriously? And you wonder why I think you are trolling and not taking your rants seriously? There is no way in hell that you are doing anything effective anywhere for autistic people with the way you present yourself here. Hopefully if you are a real advocate that you actually have better skills wherever else it is that you are doing whatever it is that you are doing.


...and you obviously did *NOT* find the time to make it to Sunday Charm School.

So you define "skill" as a synonym of "Karla-pleasing"...that is an innovative idea, don't see it catching on though.

You and I are never going to have one iota of time or use for each other, so why pretend?

...and why ask the question in the first place?



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16 May 2011, 10:19 am

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Further evidence of your inability to engage.


I should hope so too..."engaging" with a bully is an idiotic choice for anyone to make.



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16 May 2011, 10:23 am

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"You are a sad, sad little man"

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...and you, in turn, are a...WHOOPS!! ! This is a family site...better not spell that out...
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16 May 2011, 10:40 am

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kfisherx wrote:
Okay, so please enlighten all of us with your vast and superior knowledge. What is it that you are doing that is affecting such change and how do we get involved? I would like to consider all options at this point. How do you propose my skills could best be used?


Seeing as you were only diagnosed last year and you are already well on your way to presenting yourself as some kind of ambassador for Autism with special expertise, and hustling for "Autism Speaks", I think you are already in the best possible place from everybody's point iof view.



Answer the question and enable us to make a difference for ourselves as self-advocates. Obviously I am new to this and trying to learn. If you are not a troll and actually have answers than share them with your people.



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16 May 2011, 10:56 am

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wavefreak58 wrote:

"You are a sad, sad little man"

- Woody - Toy Story

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...and you, in turn, are a...WHOOPS!! ! This is a family site...better not spell that out...
:lol:


The thing is, this isn't funny in the least because you take yourself so seriously. Too bad. You seem to be a smart person. It would be far more interesting to trade information than insults.


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16 May 2011, 11:02 am

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Answer the question and enable us to make a difference for ourselves as self-advocates. Obviously I am new to this and trying to learn.


I *have* answered the question as honestly and politely as I can, the fact that you did not like the answer does not oblige me to synthesise a dishonest answer that you *do* like.

As a self-advocate you are obviously getting as much of everything you want out of your life for yourself as anyone can reasonably expect...so far be it from me to suggest anything at all.

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If you are not a troll and actually have answers than share them with your people.


???Why who died and made me Moses? I do not even think in terms of that kind of arrogance...



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16 May 2011, 11:08 am

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The thing is, this isn't funny in the least because you take yourself so seriously. Too bad. You seem to be a smart person. It would be far more interesting to trade information than insults.


Let me be very serious with you now, I do not want to trade anything with you, ever, and you have no choice but accept that, one way or another. :roll: