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08 Jun 2016, 3:12 am

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Is an autistic person autistic prior to diagnosis? Yes.

Hard to believe it took 18 pages to get here.
Don't miss the key point:

Self-diagnosis of autism doesn't mean you are autistic.

You don't know if you are autistic (or not) until medical diagnosis.


Hence you only have suspicions.
These kinds of responses really make me wonder how old you are. I would like to know. It would help me understand why you respond the way you do to a lot of these posts.


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08 Jun 2016, 3:19 am

sonicallysensitive wrote:
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sonicallysensitive wrote:
Is an autistic person autistic prior to diagnosis? Yes.

Hard to believe it took 18 pages to get here.
Don't miss the key point:

Self-diagnosis of autism doesn't mean you are autistic.

You don't know if you are autistic (or not) until medical diagnosis.


Hence you only have suspicions.


A fact that I don't think any self-diagnosed person would deny.



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08 Jun 2016, 3:19 am

sonicallysensitive wrote:
But until medical diagnosis, 'likely', 'possibly', 'most certainly' etc all fall under one term


"Likely," "possibly," and "most certainly" do not all mean the same thing. I think pretty much everyone here agrees with what you're trying to say, but your reading comprehension skills are causing you to get confused.

I'm also curious how many professionals would view things the way you do. My therapist has called me autistic, but not yet given me a formal diagnosis. In the past I've seen a few similar stories from others here. Not meant as a debate topic, just something to consider.



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08 Jun 2016, 5:38 am

For some reason, I think Sonic is in his 30s.



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08 Jun 2016, 6:16 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
For some reason, I think Sonic is in his 30s.


I'm definitely thinking some way into adulthood, but almost certainly with a childhood/early teen diagnosis.



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08 Jun 2016, 6:17 am

[/quote]Don't miss the key point:

Self-diagnosis of autism doesn't mean you are autistic.

You don't know if you are autistic (or not) until medical diagnosis.

Hence you only have suspicions.[/quote]
That is true, although mis-diagnosis happens both with proper diagnosis and self-diagnosis (although not as often in the first case).


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08 Jun 2016, 8:08 am

One thing I should have pointed out:

Autism is not always a "medical" diagnosis.

Psychologists who have PhDs, and are licensed to practice psychology, could also diagnose autism. They are not medical doctors.



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08 Jun 2016, 9:06 am

The personal commentary RE myself is here for all to see.

Trying to establish my age etc is ridiculous, and a complete collapse of any form of logical thought.

If you're capable of addressing an issue, I'll address the issue.

Addressing the individual in the manner demonstrated in this thread is a simple ad hominem.


The same 'defences' are also arising i.e. 'sometimes the professionals get it wrong' (which was addressed earlier in the thread, and shown in terms of logic why it is a baseless fallacy).

The issue of age was also discussed.


Using the same lines of reasoning that have been shown to be fallacious speaks more of any individual than it does of me personally.


I'm not here to defend myself personally, nor do I need to defend myself personally.


The personal attack is ridiculous. I expect apologies.







Turning the subject into a personal commentary shows a complete failure, at a base level.



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08 Jun 2016, 9:10 am

Jesus Christ!

I was just speculating as to your age. What's wrong with that?

Where's the "ad hominem" attack?

I'm 55, by the way. If you want to make fun of my advanced age, go right ahead!

Maybe we could go to a pub, and play billiards and darts. I'll have a cherry grenadine. You can have what you want--my treat.

I'm a straight man, so don't worry about the other aspect.



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08 Jun 2016, 9:16 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
For some reason, I think Sonic is in his 30s.


No, officially sonic the hedgehog is 15 but in some games and comics that fluxuates between 16 and 15.

But if you want to be technical he's going to be 25 on the 23rd


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08 Jun 2016, 9:17 am

Personally I think age isn't a factor in these conversations, but age at diagnosis will definitely have an impact.

Those diagnosed later will likely have either had long-term support for other 'issues', for want of a better word, and then had an autism diagnosis. Or, alternatively, are likely to have self-diagnosed for a period of time before being diagnosed (if, indeed, they've gone down the formal route at all).

The perspective of those diagnosed in their childhood, or teenage years, doesn't often take this into account. Since they've had input from professionals for as long as they remember, or at the very least have had someone they know suggest/agree that something might be neurologically wrong, they're unlikely to understand that for many self-diagnosis HAS to be the first step.

Of course, where age also becomes a factor is in the fact that dealing with 'invisible' conditions, and even visible disabilities, is the much more done thing now. So, younger people now will be much more aware of these conditions. Certainly when I was at school, though not that long ago relatively, autism was unheard of.



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08 Jun 2016, 9:29 am

ArielsSong wrote:
Personally I think age isn't a factor in these conversations, but age at diagnosis will definitely have an impact.

Those diagnosed later will likely have either had long-term support for other 'issues', for want of a better word, and then had an autism diagnosis. Or, alternatively, are likely to have self-diagnosed for a period of time before being diagnosed (if, indeed, they've gone down the formal route at all).

The perspective of those diagnosed in their childhood, or teenage years, doesn't often take this into account. Since they've had input from professionals for as long as they remember, or at the very least have had someone they know suggest/agree that something might be neurologically wrong, they're unlikely to understand that for many self-diagnosis HAS to be the first step.

Of course, where age also becomes a factor is in the fact that dealing with 'invisible' conditions, and even visible disabilities, is the much more done thing now. So, younger people now will be much more aware of these conditions. Certainly when I was at school, though not that long ago relatively, autism was unheard of.


I've been dragged along to every alternative practitioner there is. My mom did not believe in doctors.


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08 Jun 2016, 9:41 am

LOL...we weren't speaking Sonic the Hedgehog---though he's cool.

We were speaking of the member known as Sonic for short. Sonic is a cool logistician.

C'mon Sonic buddy....lighten up, man!



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08 Jun 2016, 9:46 am

Really, are you into logistics, Sonic? I'm interested in that.


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08 Jun 2016, 9:59 am

He's probably into the discipline known as "logic."

It was a great part of the old scholastic curriculum.

It definitely has its place today---but it should be used in conjunction with other things.



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08 Jun 2016, 10:12 am

Aaah....¤enlightenment¤.

For what it's worth, I've been in this position. I remember everybody yelling at me that I was being mean, and I was like "What! I'm just logical! Why are you so offended?!" Then I'd feel horribly hurt an misunderstood, and why did people take everything personally, anyway... Also, there is no demographic more likely to feel offended than teenage girls.


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