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13 Mar 2010, 9:39 pm

As a child, I used to feel as if I was born in the wrong body. The body of the wrong species, I was supposed to be a cat. I truely believed in I was born in the wrong body. I wonder if I have some form of lycanthrope.



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13 Mar 2010, 11:18 pm

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For instance sometimes he will come and sit by me and put his head next to me and look at me (with PUPPY DOG eyes) and sigh...ok now I never made this connection before but this is EXACTLY what our boxer dog used to do to us when she wanted a scratch or pat.

I do this. I still do this and because my dog used to make growling sounds and bite her paw I do that sometimes too. And she'd lie upside down and watch TV and I do that too. At least I don't go as far as mimicking those high pitch barks.
When I was a kid I pretended to be a dog, cat, wolf, monkey... I love animals. And because I drew them constantly I would curl my fingers up to make paws and not make my knees touch the ground.


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14 Mar 2010, 7:40 am

Just a theory...
Many Aspies are hypersensitive to noise, smell etc. and animals do usually have highly developed sensitive senses , maybe it makes them sense-related, sort of (sry for the english, don't know how to express this exactly):oops:

And dogs are much more easy to understand than humans, they're straightforward, they usually don't lie(except, if they cheat for some more food), they can't disguise their feelings/moods, they are loyal and they'll never ever condemn you.

btw in "dog" a smile means i'm sorry whereas a straight look into the eye means a threat; this can be quite confusing if used by a dog-behaving-human in a human environment.
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14 Mar 2010, 4:14 pm

I was like that but with cats. I was obsessed with my cats, cared about them more than humans, and of course, acted like one. I insisted on nuzzling people rather than shaking hands or giving a goodnight hug, eating directly from a bowl rather than using a knife and fork, communicating in high pitched yowls, hissing when angry, etc.

I still like the idea of doing animal things like sleeping in the airing cupboard.

I also identify with cats a little. Hypermobility, sensitive vision, high strung, etc :D


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16 Sep 2010, 8:46 pm

i work in a certain nursing home and there's someone who i believe is LFV. he will flap his arms periodically like a bird and sometimes i hear birds sounds from him. it's trance-like when he does it and i think it gives him a certain satisfaction.



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16 Sep 2010, 10:15 pm

uh..... I like acting like a dog. but then again I like mocking animal sounds.

Im not a kid, but I feel like one at times



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16 Sep 2010, 10:53 pm

It may sound crazy but maybe it could be related to a previous life or something.



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12 Sep 2011, 2:04 am

I think I have a problem not sure wat it is but I love the smell of my feet chase small animals and somtimes I bark and when my friend gave me a tail I would stop chasing it can somone please tell me was wrong with me



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12 Sep 2011, 2:05 am

I think I have a problem not sure wat it is but I love the smell of my feet chase small animals and somtimes I bark and when my friend gave me a tail I would stop chasing it can somone please tell me was wrong with me



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12 Sep 2011, 2:40 pm

You're eccentric and have an over-active imagination?


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12 Sep 2011, 5:09 pm

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It's been noted at times that there are autistic people whose special interest is animals and who may take that to the point of acting like animals. I was always like that with cats. I even brought my mother toy mice in my mouth, crawled around on fences defending our (cats') territory from neighboring cats, and many other things. I still find it natural to respond in cattish ways to people and situations, although I am too physically disabled to do any more crawling than I have to these days. I still purr, rub faces, meow (in many different ways), etc. My cat seems fine with it. (I'm almost 30.)

I have been accused of being a "furry lifestyler" before and wondered what that is and it's an entire community of people who feel such an intense identification or emotional or spiritual connection to animals that they live out some part of their lives acting like the animals and some get extreme costumes or body modification to look more like the animal. I guess people associate furries with something sexual (and inappropriate for this forum) but that's not what I saw. I don't really hang around with them but the fact that there are entire communities for things like this says something right there.

Anyway I know I'm not a cat but I have acted enough like one that people have wondered if I knew or not. I just always identified more with them than humans and had important relationships with them my whole life.


My speical intrests/obsessions was always one speices of animal or another.

I've always idenified with animals more than humans. I've often felt as if I was born in the wrong body. Not the wrong gender, but the wrong species. My mom wouldn't listen to me about it and would just tell me that God made me a person and that's all there was to it. No sympathy or compassion whatsoever.

My parents hate the fact that I am a furry. They think it's all one big sexual thing. They're just going to have to accept it and get over their ignornace. I'd rather make friends with actual animals than people dressed up as them anyway. Under the costume, they are still a person. I am seriously looking into having some tattoing and body modification done so I can look more like a meerkat.

I think I once read somewhere that there are a lot of autistic people in the furry community.


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15 May 2012, 11:11 pm

I know I'm a bit late to the party here, but I also went thru a phase where I thought of myself as a dog...

When I was about 4 or 5, I would pretend that I was a puppy...a cute, floppy, clumsy, lovable puppy. I had a bunch of dog stuffed animals, and those miniature Pound Puppies toys, and I even had a Pound Puppies Golden Book video (a hand - me - down from a neighbor girl) I liked to watch. From what I could tell, everyone loved puppies, so I never understood why my mother would always look down at me crawling on the floor on all fours, barking and wagging my little tushie, give me a withering look and say, "I want you to stop that when our friends come over." Why wouldn't they like it? Didn't everyone like puppies? (my line of reasoning at the age of 4).

One incident that sticks out in my mind was when my mom, my aunt, and I (I was still b/tw the ages of 4 and 5 and still loved to pretend I was a puppy) were eating at this Thornton's - like place attached to a gas station, and my mom was holding me in her lap. I loved being held in her lap (matter of fact, she was doing less and less of it at the time, so this was special), so I did what puppies do when they're happy and craned my neck up to give her a small lick on her cheek.

I think my aunt thought it was cute, but my mother was completely repulsed and snapped at me, "That's disgusting!" Deeply hurt by her rejection of what I'd given her, I burst into tears, and I heard my aunt say, "Ohhh, we must have hurt her feelings." I didn't pretend I was a puppy anymore after that.

These days I fancy myself as a "car - fur" or sorts (a term for someone who likes anthropomorphic Cars, trains, planes, electrical appliances, etc.) and my carsona is a small, pink Volkswagen Hebmuller called Lil' Pink Coupe. :D I actually knew that I was a car - fur from when I was a very little girl - when Susie the Little Blue Coupe, Benny the Cab from Who Framed Roger Rabbit and the Chevron Cars grabbed my attention - and I'm fully content with my car - furriness. I think I like being a Car better than I liked being a puppy.


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15 May 2012, 11:50 pm

Was your brother ever locked in 'his inner world' appearing oblivious to people in his immediate surroundings ? IF so, was it a puppy or dog THAT helped him connect with the 'outer world' and relate to people on some level ?

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16 May 2012, 12:01 am

KoS wrote:
Hi,

I was going to put this in the Parents forum, but this area is way more active and there aren't many LFA issues posted in there anyways, but if a mod feels this should be moved, feel free!!

Just wondering if anyone knows anyone or has ever known any Autistic person, LFA or otherwise who, erm, thinks they're a dog? I don't mean identifies strongly with dogs, or loves dogs alot, I mean....acts like a dog, wants to be a dog.

I've been looking for information on the internet for this for A LONG time and I can't find anything. I'm just trying to figure out my brother (age 19, LFA) a little bit better. Ever since he was a child he's been very 'dog-like', he often prefers to sleep outside (which I don't always let him and the home he lives in never lets him), he likes to eat like a dog straight with his mouth from a bowl, he likes being scratched like a dog, he makes dog noises (whines and barks), and naturally, he occasionally licks me and others, and of course, he LOVES dogs.

Just want to know if anyone else has seen anyone like this before and if you know anything about it? He's been this way pretty much his whole life. It's not 100% of the time, but at least 50%.


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16 May 2012, 12:21 am

I remember feeling as if I was born in the wrong body as young as three years old. Not the body of the wrong gender, but the body of the wrong species, speficaly a jaguar or some kind of cat.


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16 May 2012, 11:28 am

it could be a coping mechanism, I was a dog through most of upper elementary school, and I still act like a dog(growling,barking,whining, ect.) though not as much as I used to, and I'm 19. I identify more with dogs then I do people and have always wanted to be a dog.


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