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CerebralDreamer
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25 Apr 2010, 9:53 am

I've found that women are a lot easier to get along with, and part of that is because their aggression is far more subtle. Sometimes I just don't pick up on it, and people probably misread it as confidence.

In other cases it's just the complete change of expectations, compared to socializing with other guys. There are a few guys who don't live and die by sports (American Football where I live), but they aren't very common. The real problem is trying to navigate towards other nerds in a society overrun by hyper-religious football fans.

That said, women tend to be a little curious about me, and that makes it easy to get my foot in the door. After that it's just a matter of how well I can maintain their attention.


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25 Apr 2010, 10:25 am

Girls like to squeeze and behave like brainless. They love gossips and often aren't honest. They pretend they like you, but when you turn back, they laugh at you. They make intrigues and conspiracies and love to take an offence. They want you to read in their minds.
Ofc not all girls, I'm a girl too and I don't do these things.

Boys also can be rude and unhonest, but in less amounts than girls.

I like boys and girls who use their brains and can think.


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25 Apr 2010, 2:08 pm

I have been better at socializing with those of the opposite sex, but I am working at having male friends.


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25 Apr 2010, 2:30 pm

I think that when there are too many girls/boys in one place, it won't be good. They should be in similar numbers to neutralise themselves.


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25 Apr 2010, 2:50 pm

" too many girls/boys in one place, it won't be good. They should be in similar numbers to neutralize themselves."


haha i have seen the devastation of this first hand,the result...Drama and wayyy too much P.D.A
the girls whine , the boys behave like girls and take it, and sooner or later, the group of friends falls apart.



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25 Apr 2010, 3:34 pm

I find it easier to socialize with girls than guys. I often find little to relate with the typical guy and I have this unwanted feeling of tension sometimes. Women tend to make me feel calmer and they're more likely to get real conversation out me.


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25 Apr 2010, 6:33 pm

I find that it's easier to socialize with guys, and I'm a woman.


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