Did you ever get asked were you molested as a child?

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27 Jun 2010, 9:46 pm

Oh. I don't understand why you had to tell everyone then and not just your counselor only.



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27 Jun 2010, 10:02 pm

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Malls are prime hunting grounds for child molestors. I spent alot time hanging out in malls when I was kid, so i'm surprised something like this only happened once. I may have social deficits, but i'm pretty darn "street smart" if I do say so myself.
I know when somebody has ill-intentions and it didn't take more than a few seconds for me to realize the guy who was bothering me did. I suppose he could've been technically classified as an ephebophile rather than a pedophile though since I was already post-pubescent at that time.


Libraries, parks, and in front of schools are also prime targets. after these guys get caught and sent to jail they always re-offend harming dozens of other children before they get caught. They should warehouse them in a mental institution somewhere.

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Anyway.......do you know if those guys got into any legal trouble for beating that guy up? I mean i'm sure the guy was some sort of molestor, but he didn't actually do anything illegal. I'd be surprised if they weren't charged with assault and battery or something. The guy might have sued them if nothing else. I'm not real keen on vigilante justice, but I can't say I feel too much sympathy for the guy. My ex-girlfriend was brutally raped when she was 17. The guy who raped her was an illegal mexican immigrant. Her boyfriend at the time and a few other guys beat the crap out of the him, but he was never charged. My ex comes from very traditional asian family and her father would've blamed her for the rape, so she never reported it. So aside from the beating he received, he got away with it :( and supposedly fled back to Mexico not long after they beat him up..


A co-worker mentioned this story while we were in the break room. He said oldest of the guys drove him home after he talked to the police and I guess other guys took of before the police showed up. He never mentioned if they got arrested.

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The number of sex criminals in our society is ridiculous. I looked at the Fl. sex offender database and there's literally hundreds of registered sex offenders that live within a five mile radius of me 8O .


On my street when I was three there is a small wooded area at the end of the street. a young girl was kidnapped from there while playing. The man raped her then threw off a bridge on the Senica Indian Reservation into a deep creek but she lived and some fishermen found her and gave discription of the car. My mom says they caught the guy and he for all she knows is still in Attica. We were never allowed to play there while growing up because of that girl being kidnapped from there.

We had a guy who was a repeat sex offender move right next to the Depew High school. It took forever for a judge to get him to leave.



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27 Jun 2010, 10:07 pm

League_Girl wrote:
Oh. I don't understand why you had to tell everyone then and not just your counselor only.


I did not tell anyone I went strait to the counselor. He (The Counselor) also asked me not to mention it after I left his office. I had only a handfull of friends in high school and they were all apathetic. She got picked on all the time because she was new and quiet. Our bullies multitasked so we were often tormented at the same time and place. I guess thats how she knew me.

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I still do not know why she did not go to the conseler or a teacher? I was the worst choice for the situation due to my social anxiety. and took the risk of me telling everyone leading to further mockery.


I meant she put a lot of trust in me for all she knew I could have said something to her bullies she took a big risk because she never really met me before socially.



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27 Jun 2010, 10:19 pm

I remember hearing about a serial killer being in my area. He liked molesting little boys and he decided to start killing them thinking it be more of a turn on so he killed three boys in 1989 and he even took a little boy from a school I used to live next by when I was a baby. It happened after we moved up into Washington and the guy had driven across the river to Portland to look for his next victim. Then he tried to kidnap his next victim in Camas, WA but the little boy got away and that was how he got caught. He confessed he do it again and they better kill him and he even said in court he might escape and he do it again. He even picked to be hung as his execution method since that was how he killed his last victim and he was executed three years later.

His name: Westley Allen Dodd.



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28 Jun 2010, 12:34 am

I remember Dodd.....a total psychopath.

At least he kinda looked like a psychopath, unlike the following individuals who, for some reason, have always disturbed me more than any other psychopaths, serial killers and other such ghouls in our society:

http://www.trutv.com/library/crime/seri ... dex_1.html

As a determinist, I can't say I really believe in the concept of "good" and "evil".

But these two are definitely evil personified if there really is such a thing. It literally makes me sick to think that Karla Holmolka was released after serving only twelve years in prison. She was allowed to take correspondence courses in prison and obtained a BA degree in PSYCHOLOGY of all things!! ! 8O



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28 Jun 2010, 6:11 pm

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Everytime I told someone I do not like to be touched or touch someone and hate making eye contact I get asked if I was ever molested as a child. Has this ever happened to you guys? By the way I never was molested. :?:


I've had that happen, but the people who've asked me were really stupid and overly social and not used to anti social people. I've even had family members ask on occasion while I was a teenager because my family background is Italian so other than me the rest of the family is overly social. Now that I'm an adult I've only recently become interested in trying to socialize with them. Although it's hard because I never feel like they completely respect me as a person.



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28 Jun 2010, 11:55 pm

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Todesking wrote:
Everytime I told someone I do not like to be touched or touch someone and hate making eye contact I get asked if I was ever molested as a child. Has this ever happened to you guys? By the way I never was molested. :?:


I've had that happen, but the people who've asked me were really stupid and overly social and not used to anti social people. I've even had family members ask on occasion while I was a teenager because my family background is Italian so other than me the rest of the family is overly social. Now that I'm an adult I've only recently become interested in trying to socialize with them. Although it's hard because I never feel like they completely respect me as a person.


When I told them I am real shy they believed me and left alone after that. I guess they were trying to figure out why I was so weird. I always see Italians potrayed on tv kissing on both cheeks or hugging that would have driven me nuts.



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29 Jun 2010, 4:18 am

Yes.