Do you get angry when someone falls or gets sick?

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06 May 2014, 4:17 pm

I don't get angry, but I think that my father gets angry when I fall, like the time he got angry after I fell over one of those poles used to block cars from driving on the pedestrian path next to the USS Midway when I was looking for the gunports on the ship.


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06 May 2014, 11:15 pm

I get angry at the situation sometimes when someone is sick and can't do what they promised to do. But that is not the same thing as being angry at them, and anyway they are probably even more annoyed that they've gotten sick than I am.


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07 May 2014, 1:53 am

This is an interesting thread. I've had a similar experience, but not sure if it fits OP's criteria.

When I'm really super crazy tired, I tend to get irritated/disgusted with people with disabilities. I see someone in a wheelchair or mentally challenged or whatever, and I get all "why do they have to be out in public like that?" I don't know why I feel this way. I'm not an unsympathetic person, and when I'm not tired, I don't feel this way, and will even gladly help people who need it.

I know it sounds awful, and it is and I'm ashamed for it. But it is what it is...


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07 May 2014, 6:37 am

I instantly get furiously angry if I get hurt, fall over etc (rather than someone else). If someone laughs at me or criticises me at this time I will really yell at them. It's about the only time I lose my shyness/social anxiety/British reserve (call it what you will).

Part of it is anger at myself for making a mistake and part of it is anger at being laughed at (my father always laughed when I got hurt as a child).

I never find someone else being hurt in real life funny (slapstick comedy is different). The only time I think I'd be angry when someone else got hurt would be if they got lots of sympathy in a situation where I felt that I would just get laughed at



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09 May 2014, 1:45 pm

????? Common. That's just as bad as someone getting angry allot because you have AS. I think you need to change this attitude!! !! !! !