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09 Feb 2011, 12:23 pm

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[quote="creature1001" a quite acute listener.


[quote="ToughDiamond"]I think I know what you mean. Once, a partner of mine put me on the spot and asked me to tell her what I knew about her personality. I was able to say a lot, and she was delighted. Yet I'd never asked her any questions, as far as I remember.[/quote]

You'll have to pardon my neurosis, I tend to cross my words and edit, edit, then more edit.

I meant to say astute.

That is excellent! I am glad to hear that someone relates. I just realized what it was that sets me so very far apart from everyone else.

Hi!


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09 Feb 2011, 1:21 pm

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I rarely ask questions, as my first urge is to seek the information elsewhere and I don't ask personal questions anyway. Usually it is quicker and less bothersome to do your own research.


That's true. Humans are so hard to wrangle relevant information out of sometimes. The internet has spoiled us.


So what species do you have better luck getting information out of? 8-)


I was thinking of computers in comparison to humans when I said that :)


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09 Feb 2011, 1:26 pm

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I do recall one evening where I asked a lady about 5 or 6 questions - that's my record. :P


Wow, that's your record? I'd say you don't ask many questions at all, then.


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09 Feb 2011, 1:46 pm

I do. 8)


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09 Feb 2011, 4:55 pm

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I've noticed that I hardly ever ask questions in real life. I ask a few in writing but not really very many.

Thing is, I'm sure that questions are a very important part of communication, especially for making friends where you want to know about the other person so you can decide whether you're going to like each other or not, and find out what you might be able to share. So why don't I?


I'm guessing you being a scientist you would have to be inquisitive, and even so if it was just Applied Science.

I at one time( pre- teen /early teen) had a lot of questions, and I recall a family member was fed up a bit with it-- I guess that's why I got that encyclopedia set :lol:

I guess now I ask the ones that I don't know the answer to. And this doesn't usually amount to much. I watch and learn from a distance. This is my M.O. I guess, but maybe this is the "introverts" Modus O. If I ask anything it usually is a 'test question' to see how or what their perception is on the matter.

Usually I answer my own questions.



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10 Feb 2011, 5:13 am

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I do recall one evening where I asked a lady about 5 or 6 questions - that's my record. :P


Wow, that's your record? I'd say you don't ask many questions at all, then.

You would be correct. If I can manage one question in a session, that's quite good by my standards. But I hope to improve.



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10 Feb 2011, 5:16 am

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That is excellent! I am glad to hear that someone relates. I just realized what it was that sets me so very far apart from everyone else.

Hi!

Well, not quite everyone. 8)



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10 Feb 2011, 5:33 am

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I'm guessing you being a scientist you would have to be inquisitive, and even so if it was just Applied Science.

I at one time( pre- teen /early teen) had a lot of questions, and I recall a family member was fed up a bit with it-- I guess that's why I got that encyclopedia set :lol:

I guess now I ask the ones that I don't know the answer to. And this doesn't usually amount to much. I watch and learn from a distance. This is my M.O. I guess, but maybe this is the "introverts" Modus O. If I ask anything it usually is a 'test question' to see how or what their perception is on the matter.

Usually I answer my own questions.


Oh yes I'm inquisitive. The Web is my encyclopedia (never had a paper one, though I'd have loved it), and I turn to that to get answers, as a first resort.

Now I come to think, I remember I used to interrogate Dad a great deal when I was a young child. He was quite patient too, as (like me) he loved answering questions. Even the difficult ones ("can my sister and I get married?"). But something must have gone wrong. Either the AS didn't kick in till later, or the world taught me that it was wrong.



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10 Feb 2011, 7:50 am

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no. never. why do you ask?



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10 Feb 2011, 8:15 am

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It is not that I lack interest. I simply do not have any 'questions'.

I take in everything. But all my 'questions' are intellect related, not social. But I do pay close attention. I can tell you very close, though maybe not verbatim, detail about your life.

I do not lack interest! I just lack questions.


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I think I know what you mean. Once, a partner of mine put me on the spot and asked me to tell her what I knew about her personality. I was able to say a lot, and she was delighted. Yet I'd never asked her any questions, as far as I remember.


I also have no questions, and if; they are no common questions, but often essential and make my conversation partner reconsider things. I can say a lot about my friends without having to ask, and the details about their daily lives are to me only extra facts that I dont see the importance of.



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10 Feb 2011, 8:17 am

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I'm guessing you being a scientist you would have to be inquisitive, and even so if it was just Applied Science.

I at one time( pre- teen /early teen) had a lot of questions, and I recall a family member was fed up a bit with it-- I guess that's why I got that encyclopedia set :lol:

I guess now I ask the ones that I don't know the answer to. And this doesn't usually amount to much. I watch and learn from a distance. This is my M.O. I guess, but maybe this is the "introverts" Modus O. If I ask anything it usually is a 'test question' to see how or what their perception is on the matter.

Usually I answer my own questions.


Oh yes I'm inquisitive. The Web is my encyclopedia (never had a paper one, though I'd have loved it), and I turn to that to get answers, as a first resort.

Now I come to think, I remember I used to interrogate Dad a great deal when I was a young child. He was quite patient too, as (like me) he loved answering questions. Even the difficult ones ("can my sister and I get married?"). But something must have gone wrong. Either the AS didn't kick in till later, or the world taught me that it was wrong.


Funny^
I was the same although an "only." You look at the 'form' and the apparent function of the 'sense data.' One day (at 5) it dawned on me that I am here, and you are there, and they are over there- why the *me* that emerged from this darkness.
Then questioning mom, "who am I? She immediately 'knew my angle' and said, " why dear, you are a human being."Hmmm.... I thought, and chewed on that concept for a while- this never ends.

You are right about that" wrongness"-- all kids seem to gallivant around, but eventually become socialized into the local mores. This really is all unconscious programming/instinct and is non volitional as they all become 'one' and form within it. But with some this questioning doesn't end. Asking these questions 'now' would raise eyebrows - this is a robotic existence .



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10 Feb 2011, 8:42 am

My instinct is not to (not to start any kind of communication, even), but I'll ask if there's something I need to know. It can take a lot of effort, though.



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10 Feb 2011, 9:39 am

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no. never. why do you ask?

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10 Feb 2011, 9:59 am

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Mdyar wrote:
I'm guessing you being a scientist you would have to be inquisitive, and even so if it was just Applied Science.

I at one time( pre- teen /early teen) had a lot of questions, and I recall a family member was fed up a bit with it-- I guess that's why I got that encyclopedia set :lol:

I guess now I ask the ones that I don't know the answer to. And this doesn't usually amount to much. I watch and learn from a distance. This is my M.O. I guess, but maybe this is the "introverts" Modus O. If I ask anything it usually is a 'test question' to see how or what their perception is on the matter.

Usually I answer my own questions.


Oh yes I'm inquisitive. The Web is my encyclopedia (never had a paper one, though I'd have loved it), and I turn to that to get answers, as a first resort.

Now I come to think, I remember I used to interrogate Dad a great deal when I was a young child. He was quite patient too, as (like me) he loved answering questions. Even the difficult ones ("can my sister and I get married?"). But something must have gone wrong. Either the AS didn't kick in till later, or the world taught me that it was wrong.


Funny^
I was the same although an "only." You look at the 'form' and the apparent function of the 'sense data.' One day (at 5) it day dawned on me that I am here, and you are there, and they are over there- why the *me* that emerged from this darkness.
Then questioning mom, "who am I? She immediately 'knew my angle' and said, " why dear, you are a human being."Hmmm.... I thought, and chewed on that concept for a while- this never ends.

You are right about that" wrongness"-- all kids seem to gallivant around, but eventually become socialized into the local mores. This really is all unconscious programming/instinct and is non volitional as they all become 'one' and form within it. But with some this questioning doesn't end. Asking these questions 'now' would raise eyebrows - this is a robotic existence .


Reading your words is like eating a delicious strawberry pie with the eyes.....seriously. Your english is yummy.



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10 Feb 2011, 10:23 am

Mdyar wrote:
You are right about that" wrongness"-- all kids seem to gallivant around, but eventually become socialized into the local mores. This really is all unconscious programming/instinct and is non volitional as they all become 'one' and form within it. But with some this questioning doesn't end. Asking these questions 'now' would raise eyebrows - this is a robotic existence .

Yep. I suppose most kids start out just asking whatever comes into their heads. What would come over as deeply invasive from an adult, is just funny and endearing when a child asks it. No doubt NTs just learn to apply a social filter...we can't, so maybe after a few mistakes we stop asking.

Yet I don't recall making any mistakes like that. With behaviour and statements, yes, but not with questions. I don't recall Dad or my teachers losing their patience with Q's from me.

I don't think I ever really mastered the art of questioning what's being said to me (in an explorative, co-operative kind of way). Didn't really know it was done........apart form school teachers who often said "any questions?" - in my early years everything they said was crystal clear, so there was no need. Later on it was so unclear that I had no idea what questions to ask, to clear the blocks. And there was the risk of revealing my ignorance.



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10 Feb 2011, 10:24 am

oh, yes I ask lots of questions. It is part of conversation, that way can share information about whatever we are talking about. Sometimes I prefer exhaustive detailed conversations and that drives people nuts.