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22 Mar 2011, 1:19 pm

I keep saying this....

Come to Portland and sign up at my clinic for grief therapy. You'll get nailed right away if you are one. I could easily have had a DX in 4 sessions or even less if I wanted one. Now, all I'd have to do is pick which one of the PsyDs to sign the form.

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22 Mar 2011, 1:21 pm

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As far as I have been able to discern this little piece of witty wisdom is ultimately true and bears little relation to the fact that the best and brightest in the medical world come to the United States to practice.


They come here because we have a sh***y system that pays out tons of money that won't disadvantage them the way it does the nearly 50,000,000 people who have no medical care.

I already addressed "as far as I have been able to discern." Feeling that something is true doesn't make it true. I don't understand why you're unable to make factual arguments and appeal so much to emotion* without facts to back your arguments up, but I find it hard to let them stand without a response.

* I don't think emotion is bad at all, but arguments need substance as well as feeling.



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22 Mar 2011, 1:22 pm

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Well, do you obsess on Disney songs?

I agree - I have no clue what the hell they could possibly learn in an hour. The assessment is aimed towards children.

Maybe try calling/emailing back and tell them they linked you to the wrong assessment page. Tell them you are looking for the ADULT assessment page and see what they say...
The answer may be, at least, entertaining. Or, it may give you a better idea of exactly how well versed they are in adult dx.


Y'know, at first I laughed when I read the first sentence. But then I realized that that's what it might boil down to! And even though they might just do adult assessment, it's still geared toward children as far as the assessment paperwork is concerned!

This should be interesting 8) :roll: :lol:


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22 Mar 2011, 1:29 pm

kfisherx wrote:
I keep saying this....

Come to Portland and sign up at my clinic for grief therapy. You'll get nailed right away if you are one. I could easily have had a DX in 4 sessions or even less if I wanted one. Now, all I'd have to do is pick which one of the PsyDs to sign the form.

:D :D :D :D :D :D


K - tell your doc's to sign themselves up for human cloning - NOW. They need to get in on the ground floor... I honestly wish that intelligent well versed docs would sel themselves to their own community. So many clinics need to know what they know. Private practice is full of well educated professionals. How do we get their expertise down to the local, public health level where the need is the greatest?



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22 Mar 2011, 1:32 pm

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Well, do you obsess on Disney songs?

I agree - I have no clue what the hell they could possibly learn in an hour. The assessment is aimed towards children.

Maybe try calling/emailing back and tell them they linked you to the wrong assessment page. Tell them you are looking for the ADULT assessment page and see what they say...
The answer may be, at least, entertaining. Or, it may give you a better idea of exactly how well versed they are in adult dx.


Y'know, at first I laughed when I read the first sentence. But then I realized that that's what it might boil down to! And even though they might just do adult assessment, it's still geared toward children as far as the assessment paperwork is concerned!

This should be interesting 8) :roll: :lol:


Calling it as I see it since 1968... :wink:



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22 Mar 2011, 3:37 pm

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Better $400 than the 16-thousand dollar psychiatric hospitalization I learned of my diagnosis through! And to this day i still have doubts about being an aspie! The fact that I tend to be trusting of other people and the constant complaints about physicians in my area send me mixed messages, and the thing my therapist beleives-that theres a little bit of AS in everyone makes me even more confused. So I can understand your apprehension about all this: Nobody wants to find out they've been living a lie-which is exactly what I feel everytime I get something "right" socially! And there are more times than not that I'm certain that I have AS- because NTs do not meltdown or stim in public while I constantly have tantrums and will bob or vibrate in place when i become impatient on lines and in quiet, boring places. NTs can be picky eaters, but their list of dislikes probably only spans 3 or 4 different foods, while my list is 15 or more items long because certain textures make me gag! And NTs can tolerate loud noises better than I can-I have an uncle who can fire a gun with no hearing protection and not wince while the sound of a vaccum cleaner or a fire siren makes me want to cover my ears. And NTs dont seem to be bothered by the feel of clothes rubbing over dry skin or hangnails while the mere thought makes me cringe! Do any of these things describe you? If they do, you probably have some form of Autism, if not AS than probably PDD-NOS, which is autism that fits into none of the other criteria. Rest assured, Even if you arent Autistic, people will not see you any differently- I've come to understand that Aspies are excellent judges of character despite their lack of nonverbal know-how, and if you've been friendly to us as a self-diagnosed individual, than you'll be no less friendly as an NT!


I have many issues of my own - as described ad infinitum ad nauseum here on WrongPlanet. There seems to be such a wide variety of expression of the diagnostic criteria in various people as is seen in people here!

Funny thing is that with other people who know me, they can pick out one or two things that directly relate to Autism Spectrum Disorders in general, but no one has ever put all those things together. The only time that has happened is when I landed here!


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22 Mar 2011, 3:52 pm

That sounds like BS to me, I question any organization that claims to exist to 'help' people that charges a fee like that. Seems like this organization cares a little bit more about filling their pockets then helping you or anyone else, but thats just a personal opinion.



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22 Mar 2011, 3:55 pm

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America Ranks number 1 if you exclude those without health insurance
Roughly 50 million people, IIRC. Fifty million people, which an incredibly advanced country is apparently prepared to leave to rot because they can't pay for a shiny corporation to keep them well.
Not being able to buy a new TV is one thing, but not being able to buy your own life back takes it to a whole different level.
What's really saddening to me from a UK perspective is that for health, this "can't pay, don't get" approach is defended.
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if you are willing to pay for it
I'm not forced to use the public services here; I can just as easily pay for it privately if I wanted to. Or if could afford to - which I can't.

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But we don't have a distribution system that provides sufficient access to a large enough portion of the population in an affordable manner.
...whereas we do have the distribution system - yet it's slowly but surely being broken up and shipped off to private companies to the benefit of no-one except those private companies.
I think we're sliding down a very nasty slope.

draelynn wrote:
Because America is where the money is... I'm not sure there is any high moral or ethical grounds at work here. American medicine is about the money. Period.
Verlandi wrote:
They come here because we have a sh***y system that pays out tons of money that won't disadvantage them the way it does the nearly 50,000,000 people who have no medical care.
Exactly.
Just to be clear, though - I have no issue whatever with qualified people going where the money is, but it's a horrible injustice when those who really need help become excluded just because they can't pay.


Oh well, I'm done with this detour.
We now return to your regular broadcast.


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22 Mar 2011, 4:54 pm

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Has anybody ever had second thoughts about getting a diagnosis?

Yes, and third thoughts and fourth thoughts, etc., etc., etc. Several months after receiving my diagnosis, I'm still trying to decide whether it was the right thing to do.

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The paperwork just sends my mind reeling.

I had to fill out tons of paperwork, too, for my diagnosis. About 40 pages worth in the end, I think. Yeah, it took a big commitment on my part to get through it all. And paperwork is what I do all day, every day...

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We do offer a behavior assessment to determine if you meet criteria for an Autism Spectrum Disorder diagnosis. TouchPoint only does assessments for Autism so we have expertise in the field, therefore, it takes about an hour. We do not have a physician on staff to provide you with the medical diagnosis if determined; however, we do the legwork and provide a detailed written assessment report with all of your results and our recommendations which you would give to your physician to obtain the medical diagnosis.


You do realize that you're not going to leave TouchPoint with a diagnosis, right? Lots of people seem bothered by the "takes about an hour" aspect of the message. Why should a preliminary assessment take more than an hour? You're not going to see a doctor or anyone qualified to give you an official diagnosis, you're not going to get an "answer," there's nothing definitive about it. You could take the AQ Test in about ten minutes and quite likely come out with just as good a preliminary assessment. In fact, that may be what you do when you show up at TouchPoint. You can do that for free on your own, however.

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Now I have a lot of fear surrounding getting the diagnosis. This is an Autism agency! What if the person who assesses me decides that I don’t have any form of Autism based on his or her perception of me? Even if I fit the profile, or whatever, the person I would be assigned to still makes a judgment based on his or her perception.

No one's going to "decide" anything or make any kind of "judgment." Someone's going to write up some serious-sounding stuff to make it appear that TouchPoint has earned its $400. And then you'll be sent on your way.

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I feel like then, I’m just a loser and an a**hole who can’t get it together. And then what? I mean, how do you get a second opinion on whether or not you have an ASD when an agency that specializes in Autism says they don’t think you have it?

The way this is set up means that you must get a second opinion -- or a real opinion or however you want to phrase it.

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I’m damned if I chicken out because I’ve spent so much time on WP learning about ASDs and identifying with the experiences of others. At the same time, I’m damned if I go for the diagnosis and they say NOT! I will have done myself more harm than good and will feel silly for ever joining WP in the first place!

There's really no requirement that you turn the diagnostic process into some existential death spiral. You could actually look at it in a win-win kind of way: either you get a positive diagnosis which you can use to get the kind of real help you need (win) OR you find out you don't have something that no rational human being would want to have (win). Isn't it kind of ridiculous to think that you need a positive diagnosis to somehow justify the time you've spent here? The rest of your life is a long time to live with that diagnosis.

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I can trace the patterns of my life back to childhood, but there are so many other factors to be considered. Then they claim to do the assessment in about an hour! My eyeglasses took longer than that – and I went to LENSCRAFTERS!

What can I say? It's a lot more challenging to make glasses than it is to guess at someone's AS status and collect $400. Something tells me that your own self-assessment (maybe combined with an AQ score?) would be a better predictor of what a doctor would ultimately conclude. I'd find a professional and pass on these folks if I were you.


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22 Mar 2011, 5:26 pm

I've had to deal with a fair number doctors over the years, and one thing I've noticed with doctor's/provider's reputations is that they can vary a lot depending on how similar you are to the person you're asking. I.e. if you ask a parent who is good, they'll usually tell you who has been good for their kids; if you ask another doctor or a pharmacist, they might go by professional reputation (which may or may not correlate with what is good for patients), or affiliation with a big-name institution (which also might or might not be good), and so on.

It actually seems easier to find out who is a good plumber (due to online things like "Angie's list") than who is a good doctor, unfortunately.

Oh, and like RainingRoses said -- the part about them not providing a diagnosis, but fobbing off the responsibility on your doctor? I dunno, but that sounds fishy. I'd worry that my doctor could say, "well I don't know..." and not just not do it because he/she doesn't feel like it, or say, "I'm not qualified to do that; that's what you went to specialists for" and leave me in a Catch-22.



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22 Mar 2011, 5:29 pm

There's a local service that does free autism screening for adults, with a referral to a psychologist for diagnosis. $400 seems a lot to just screen for the possibility of autism.



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22 Mar 2011, 8:57 pm

An hour for a diagnosis? Thats too long, I am waiting for the drive thru clinic.



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22 Mar 2011, 9:06 pm

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An hour for a diagnosis? Thats too long, I am waiting for the drive thru clinic.
I think kfisherx may be able to help you out there! :lol:
Wish it was as easy as Portland over here. :roll:


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Cash__ wrote:
An hour for a diagnosis? Thats too long, I am waiting for the drive thru clinic.
I think kfisherx may be able to help you out there! :lol:
Wish it was as easy as Portland over here. :roll:


The medical care I get in Washington (I'm about...120 or so miles north of kfisherx, I think) is consistently surprisingly respectful to me. I always expect the worst and people are kind and helpful.

Similar in Portland, when I lived there. And I mean none of this was "private" health care but being on public health care. I've had commercial insurance for maybe four months out of my entire adult life.



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22 Mar 2011, 10:20 pm

Thanks, RainingRoses!

The part about not getting an actual diagnosis but something to go further with was really helpful in understanding the process.

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OR you find out you don't have something that no rational human being would want to have (win).


That's just the point! There's something going on that cannot be explained by saying I'm neurotypical. Like I said, different people I know can pick one - maybe two qualities or things they know about me that relate to ASDs, but nobody has ever put it all together. I have taken the AQ Test repeatedly and consistently score 35-38. The AQ alone cannot be used to corroborate a diagnosis because the answers can be manipulated. It's the fact that other people can (and do) bear witness to various things about me that makes me fairly sure. Of course, if you mention ASDs, these people who nothing about ASDs will say that I can't possibly have that while at the same time wondering aloud why I can't just _______________ (fill in the blank). For instance, why can't I get into a steady relationship. And my answer is always the same: I don't want to; being around somebody like that makes me feel crowded and that person will eventually complain that I'm emotionally unavailable.

Rudy Simone's Help4Aspergers website was really scary because her list of traits is an the most exact description of me yet. Many of the things she's said about Relationships are things I've said VERBATIM before I even knew what ASDs were!

What I'm saying is that the only OR would be that I find out that someone who has known me for all of AN HOUR thinks I don't have something no rational human being would want to have. It's not a matter of wanting to have it; there's always been something there. Maybe it's a matter of wanting some closure and a way to frame how I approach life or even getting appropriate support.

As you said, my own assessment combined with the AQ score might be a better predictor of what a doctor would ultimately conclude. But I'm all caught up in wanting to do things "the right way" and all.


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22 Mar 2011, 10:26 pm

kfisherx wrote:
I keep saying this....

Come to Portland and sign up at my clinic for grief therapy. You'll get nailed right away if you are one. I could easily have had a DX in 4 sessions or even less if I wanted one. Now, all I'd have to do is pick which one of the PsyDs to sign the form.

:D :D :D :D :D :D


I'd love to take you up on that as I have a friend who stays a couple of hours away in Yakima Valley, Washington! I could rent a car and drive on down! LOL


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