Is anyone with Aspergers super ugly like I am??

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Nah. I like how you look. You look friendly to me. OP has a completely different air about him. Maybe I'm over examining this though, but I think the mood or air somebody portrays influences how I think of them appearance wise quite a lot. I do not know if this is true for everybody. I can be told I'm cute even if I look like I'm high in a lot of my pictures.

Your natural aesthetics are fine, but...

You might wanna consider ditching the glasses, four eyes.

*self esteem shatters like a bullet hitting a wine glass* Sadface.
AN-Y-WAYS..Thank you very much everyone, I guess what goes outward *The initial opinion* eventually comes back inward; it doesn't always have 100% truth in it. Glad to see it through other peoples eyes. ^_^

Unfortunately, we live in a judgemental world where we happen to be targeted. I know people who also think they are "ugly" and people are afraid to look at them. It sounds like you come across a lot of ignorant people who just want to get you going. There is no "true" physical "ugly" or "attractive." Its only in our minds. The only "true" ugliness comes from the inside. And the people who insult you sound ugly to me.

Guitar Girl

You're very attractive.

I think your hot.

Don't worry, i have rosacea too.

Alcohol, red meat, coffee, heat, chlorine,facial creams all make it worse. An easy way to minimize is to take a lose dose anti-histamine and use witch hazel every morning.

:hugs: I know how you feel.

Exactly, and most (teenage guys)[or so it appears] don't realize that most of their 'enduring attractiveness' comes from their personalities moreso than their looks. And those who possess ugly personalities appear doomed to a life of lonely ugliness considering the stability of relevant personality characteristics. (Despite being remarkably handsome and intelligent, ironically, in a few implied cases...)

In the OP's case, though, as demonstrated by his pursuit of seeking others' opinions and the affect of insults on him, it appears he's too influenced by what others think of him.

To the OP, when it comes to girls, this is your death sentence, as they can detect chinks in your psychological armor better than a fat boy can eat cake, and this works to your extreme disadvantage as you enter their subconscious "wussy" zone. See DataSarge's guide stickie in the "Love and Relationships" forum for more information.

You are not ugly to me, your cute. =)

Normal looking guy posts picture of himself striking typical facebook-esque pose under pretense of "Look how super ugly I am!"

Narcissistic indulgence. Lame thread.

If you feel this way; why are you indulging the OP?

Your picture reminds me of John Francis Daley in Bones.

http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0197855/


Not unattractive. It's not really a good idea to turn to the internet for reassurance on your appearance though. Everyone has their own taste and idea of what attractive is. You are fine, and really have no reason to complain.

You ain't ugly at all. You look like an ordinary, handsome, young man.

You want to see a picture of me then! I look like a wooden doll in photos - my face is pale and one colour, you can only see the blue bit around my pupils because the white bit is almost as white as my skin, and I've got such an ugly mouth where if I smile properly the photo of me turns out to be goofy-looking but if I just smile slightly it just looks like an ugly circly-squared shape what ain't a smile at all. Then if I don't smile at all, I look too grumpy. You can't win with my f*****g ugly face. My eyes are close together, my face is long and boney, my hairs the colour of diarrhoea, my nose is big, and my ears stick out, and my figure doesn't suit me - I need to be a bit smaller. I am tall with a tiny pea-head at the top, surrounded by a curtain of thick long hair....yuk!! ! And to top of all off, I have AS too.

Hey! Where did you get my photo! Now everyone knows what I look like!

When I was at school I wish I could go invisible so nobody could find me and bully me. I thought I was ugly/plain when I was at school. Then when I left school, and guys started paying attention to me, I wished I could go invisible so people wouldn't approach me/notice me - I felt like I was under a social spotlight all the time when I just wanted to be left to my own devices. Now, people notice me less (attraction wise) as I have gotten a little older, gained a little weight, wear weirder clothes, and do less social masking, but I don't feel ugly any more.

Now I realize that the ability to learn how to "go invisible" was within me all along. You can control your external appearance to some extent, and you can learn rudimentary social cues so that you don't stand out in the crowd.

Most people who think they're ugly don't really understand what ugly means.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BsO-V6bqiDE[/youtube]

The starting part (before the singing) is so awesome. Not that I don't like the song/music...

Dude Don't sweat Your looks the people who make fun of you are Intimidated and Jelious about your looks, you look very handsome, (I know odd for a dude to call another dude Handsome, but it is true) If people are calling you ugly constantly it is because they want you to think that you are when you are not, sort of a dominance thing, when someone is threatened with another alpha whatever they try to make the other back down, in your case they are threatened by your good looks and are trying to make you back down, don't let it get to you.