I'm still in the process of trying to work out if I have AS or not, although all the tests seem to suggest it, and I am becoming more and more sure.
The more I read about ASD the more I think my father has aspie traits. He was very solitary during my childhood. Remote, intellectual. He had no friends, his reactions to situations and people seemed different to others'. Several very focussed interests. Hated the sun and liked to stay indoors. He also seemed very paranoid, but I'm not sure if that's an aspie trait or not.
My parents were both very different to other children's parents, and my life was also very different to most of my classmates. In fact his brothers were quite similar, my mum used to have interesting conversations I would listen to, with my aunts, about how 'different' the men they had married were.
My half sister, on my Dad's side, has dyscalculia, dyslexia and dyspraxia.
My Dad's mother died when I was a baby, but I know she had psychological problems in her life, and was hospitalised after my father's birth. He and his younger brother were raised by an aunt. My father's uncle was also unable to work due to psychiatric/psychological problems, and lived with his sister all his life. He was listed as an instrument maker's apprentice when he was sixteen. I don't know what they would be diagnosed with today, but they were severely impacted by their problems.
My mother's family I don't know too much about. My grandfather was troubled and got into 'sticky' situations with the law and authority generally. My grandmother certainly made some strange choices, and was difficult to get to know. There's a lot of digestive disorders on that side, that both my mother and I suffer from too. My aunt and cousins have Crohn's disease.
I've gone on too much, sorry.