Tequila wrote:
I'm not uncomfortable with it - I'm uncomfortable with the often-aggressive nature of doctors. At times it seems more like an interrogation than a friendly chat. Which just makes me freeze up.
I completely understand what you mean. I went to see a psych when I was younger and they didn't seem to really want to listen they just kept asking silly irrelevant questions.
But from the other side, as a doctor you need to get a set (in psychiatry's case, a long set) of questions answered before you can come up with a diagnosis and treatment plan. If they had all the time in the world and no other patients, I'm sure they would rather just have a chat- taking a formal history can be very stilted- but that sadly is impossible.
The reason for the direct questions is that they need direct answers to specific things that, if you were just having a normal chat, probably wouldn't come up in conversation. It's probably best to go in with the mindset that you are not going to have a chat, but are going to fill in a verbal survey.
After that, I think it gets a little more personalised.
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I've stopped seeing one particular local doctor as she was useless and was more interested in my sexuality than in dealing with my complaint. So I stopped seeing her and chose another one instead. She's OK but I don't want to discuss personal issues with her because my family knows her well. So it's fine for regular things but anything else I would be very wary.
Ick.. creepy