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13 Jun 2011, 5:35 pm

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There are some celebrities I admire for their talent, such as Björk, Kate Bush, Siouxsie Sioux, etc. But there are none who I would obsess over or scream in a mosh pit for (not that I would go anywhere near a concert).


I would scream in a mosh pit during "Declare Independence" or "Love in a Void". XD



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13 Jun 2011, 8:35 pm

I do follow celebrities sites because I love movies, so I like to know about the upcoming movies of the actors/directors I like. But I really do not care about their lives. I think the people who get obsessed about other people's lifes is because they do not like their own lifes. I like music, but I have never gone to a concert. I prefer listening to the CD. I do not see the need of going to the concert or touching, talking, hugging a perfect stranger.



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13 Jun 2011, 9:01 pm

I have a passionate distaste for celebrities, politicians and all people who act or think they are better than anybody else. I could add more, but prefer to keep this post uncensored.



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13 Jun 2011, 9:32 pm

Well, I guess a person with AS could have a special interest in a celebrity.

I don't hate all celebrities, however, most of the music I listen to is by lesser known groups. Like for example, a saw a video of 3 of the guys from my favourite band waiting to be seated at a pizza place, they didn't seem shocked that they had to wait at all. I reacted the same way that most people would react if they had to wait. They don't act like they are better than anyone else, in fact, they ENJOY talking to fans it seems like. I once talked to the drummer for 20 minutes. I kind of wanted to get going because I had to go to dinner early because I was going to HIS concert and he was enjoying the conversation so much that he wanted us to stay. He also asked me questions.



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06 Aug 2012, 6:25 am

I don't like to read about the private life of my favorite actors and actresses. Their private lives make them more distant to me, paradoxically... I feel more comfort and "proximity" when I see them playing characters I can relate to or I care about. I enjoy much more watching them in alternative lives :o
Their real life is like everybody's life, only with big amounts of money, and we never will know how their real personalities are, because the gossip press distorts that constantly.

By the way, I find the entire Beverly Hills zone is kind of depressing. It's like if living there, some kind of "mainstream" turns invisible the personality of the people. I couldn't live there, my personality couldn't tolerate it.

But I have strong interest in certain characters played by favorite actors, don't know if it counts. I would love to meet those characters to have a coffee :o Sadly they don't exist, they are played by actors that probably live in... Beverly Hills, probably with a mainstream beverlian real life.

If I had to mention one of those characters, I'd say Ray, played by Dan Aykroyd in "Ghostbusters". I love his personality there, and his amazing shop.


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06 Aug 2012, 6:30 am

Oh, and I laugh at the ridiculously big ego of certain actors and actresses.


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06 Aug 2012, 11:05 am

I did read once in a magazine about an Aspie girl who had a special interest over celebrities, but generally speaking, NTs are more likely to be into celebrities than Aspies.


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06 Aug 2012, 11:09 am

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I've never in my life seen the point of celebrities or why anyone else found them the least bit interesting.

Let's say, ta-da! they find out that some actress used to be a porn star. Big whop-de-do. Who cares? I've never met this actress and probably never will. Her life doesn't affect me in any way. What difference does it make to me whether she was a porn star or a neurosurgeon or a lobster fisherman? What makes people care about this?

And then you have some rock star up on stage and girls are going into hysterics over him. Why? My favorite composer is Beethoven, but even if he reincarnated and played a live concert, I wouldn't try to throw myself onto him onstage?! This behavior seems exceedingly odd. Are they whipped up into some sort of hypnotic mob lust-frenzy?

I don't know, I can't understand why I am expected to pay more attention to famous people than to obscure people. Why is it considered weird to discuss the life story of Mozart or Dostoyevsky, but normal to discuss the life story (in minute detail!) of Michael Jackson or Britney Speares?

Is my immunity to celebrities related to my AS? Do most Aspies feel similar to me? Does this make sense?


I LOVE movies and music. However, I do not care about what they do when they are not making what I like to watch. The fact that two people are splitting up does not bother me. I do not see the point in taking sides. Please let me know if anyone can answer me this question that I have. The Twilight books were all released prior to the movies so the readers knew how they ended. Why were there Team Edward and Team Jaccob shirts?? I did not read the books yet I still had to hear about them.

I just smile and nod... the trick is to know when to stop though b/c if you don't you just look creepy!



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06 Aug 2012, 11:09 am

I have zero interest in so called celebrities. I do however admire some past and present scientists.

There is a lot of celebrity crap on TV here in France; just another reason to skip past those channels when looking for something to watch.



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06 Aug 2012, 11:10 am

I don't understand the sort of general interest in celebrities and their lives that leads people to read those awful magazines at the supermarket and so on. I have developed a special interest/obsession over a couple specific celebrities in the past, though. They are usually obscure and occasionally dead.



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06 Aug 2012, 11:37 am

For a while, I was really interested in Emily Browning and Summer Glau because of the characters they play. River Tamm (Summer Glau) in Firefly is one of my favorite characters ever :lol:


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06 Aug 2012, 11:44 am

You know what's the most annoying?
There were many great people in this world who can serve as a source of inspiration.-Einstein, Caesar, Galileo.
And then, out of all these people who could have inspired him, guy x tells me he is inspired by BOB DYLAN.



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06 Aug 2012, 11:55 am

I think my aspies would probably agree with you. I'm actually quite curious about celebrities actually but I've always been interested in people and psychology. I usually only stick to celebrities I like though.



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06 Aug 2012, 12:21 pm

MollyTroubletail wrote:
Um, don't go thinking I was trying to say Mozart is better than Britney Speares or something like that. My second-favorite composer besides Beethoven is Eminem, so it's very silly to say that I am high-brow or low-brow or any-sort-of-brow.

But okay, let's use my example of Eminem so that this topic doesn't trigger the high-brow comments, and we can use low-brow examples instead.

Eminem is my favorite living artist, but I don't go around trying to read things about his wife or his lawsuits and whatnot. Why should people pry into his private life? And if he walked right up to me and shook my hand, I wouldn't feel impressed or honored. I would feel pleased to meet him, yes, but what I fail to get is the sensation that he is famous. I mean, if some obscure slum kid spat lyrics like this and I heard him, I'd be equally impressed to meet that kid as to meet a triple-platinum rap star.

Their talent does not escape me, but their celebrity status is simply meaningless to me. I feel celebrity-blind. Kind of like color-blind.


I get where you're coming from, but I also believe that celebrity culture serves a purpose. I'm not an expert on the matter, but I believe that even in the old days, folks like Mozart were celebrities in the sense that they were famous and looked up to. Painters, actors, authors of those days, politicians and athletes even.
The difference with today, is that today celebrity culture has been combined with consumer culture. Shoving a pop musician or a Hollywood actor in the face of the audience, means you'll go buy tickets to their new concert or movie.
ASIDE from that, I think celebrities are put on pedestals the way they are because people need someone to look up to. To use the example of Eminem and some kid who is unknown but equally talented rapper, Eminem is picked to represent (part of) hiphop in a way. He and all other well-known, well-selling MCs become the public face of hiphop, even though sometimes more interesting stuff is going on on the Indie labels, or at your local clubs. I think it's a form of creating symbols.

The flip side of the coin are all the seemingly talentless celebs, who are only famous because they're famous. They represent a lifestyle many other people aspire to. So in comes all the juicy gossip about these millionaires, jet-setters, and fashionistas, almost like a puppet show.


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06 Aug 2012, 1:42 pm

CyclopsSummers wrote:
The flip side of the coin are all the seemingly talentless celebs, who are only famous because they're famous. They represent a lifestyle many other people aspire to. So in comes all the juicy gossip about these millionaires, jet-setters, and fashionistas, almost like a muppet show.


Correction made to your post in bold. :wink:



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06 Aug 2012, 6:58 pm

I suspect that some people whose work I admire may have been given "celebrity status"... but I don't understand how knowing trivial details unrelated to their work could possibly help anyone in any way.